Grace

I guess I just needed your like outsider perspective.

Like, do you, do you think it's worth another confrontation?

Cause I'm actually, I'm pregnant with our third.

We're going to have three.

Yeah.

Thank you.

And so this is the conversation of her wanting to come more often to see the kids is going to come up.

And I'm just stuck between a rock and a hard place of, do I just let this keep going on the way that it is where they're very avoidant towards each other?

And there's all this animosity that I can feel it's palpable.

And then once my kids get old enough that they can recognize that, like, do I just leave that elephant in the room or do I try to have another confrontation with her?

And how would you go about that?

And

You know, with someone with this type of personality who will never apologize, how would you move forward with that?

Or can I?

Can I ask you a question?

Sure.

So I brought this up in therapy and my therapist suggested that I, similar to what you're saying, have a conversation with my mom, but she also thinks that I need to have a sit down with my mom and my husband in the same room.

And I just don't even know how I would start that.

Is that something you would do?

Or do you think that's necessary?