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Gretchen Rubin

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Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

I'd be like, I'll just wait and see what he thinks. No, I don't need more time. I just need to make a decision and I don't need to consult with somebody else. Or like, you know, make them do that work. That's for me to do. I'm the one going to the airport. Just deal with it, you know.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

I'd be like, I'll just wait and see what he thinks. No, I don't need more time. I just need to make a decision and I don't need to consult with somebody else. Or like, you know, make them do that work. That's for me to do. I'm the one going to the airport. Just deal with it, you know.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

Well, that's true, too.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

Well, that's true, too.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

Well, that's true, too.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

Yeah, no, see, that's another meaning of it that I hadn't even considered, but that's a great example of how an aphorism can reverberate in many ways. And this also reminds me of something that I've noticed, because I have the podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin, and I've written all these books. Sometimes people will write it, and I try not to give advice, except to me, I give myself advice.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

Yeah, no, see, that's another meaning of it that I hadn't even considered, but that's a great example of how an aphorism can reverberate in many ways. And this also reminds me of something that I've noticed, because I have the podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin, and I've written all these books. Sometimes people will write it, and I try not to give advice, except to me, I give myself advice.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

Yeah, no, see, that's another meaning of it that I hadn't even considered, but that's a great example of how an aphorism can reverberate in many ways. And this also reminds me of something that I've noticed, because I have the podcast, Happier with Gretchen Rubin, and I've written all these books. Sometimes people will write it, and I try not to give advice, except to me, I give myself advice.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

People will write with situations and they'll say, well, what do you think I should do? And inevitably, I can just write back, It sounds like you already know what to do, because even in their framing of the question, they almost always tip their hand. You know, they know what to do. And so I think you're exactly right. You sort of you want someone to come in from the outside and sort of tell you.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

People will write with situations and they'll say, well, what do you think I should do? And inevitably, I can just write back, It sounds like you already know what to do, because even in their framing of the question, they almost always tip their hand. You know, they know what to do. And so I think you're exactly right. You sort of you want someone to come in from the outside and sort of tell you.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

People will write with situations and they'll say, well, what do you think I should do? And inevitably, I can just write back, It sounds like you already know what to do, because even in their framing of the question, they almost always tip their hand. You know, they know what to do. And so I think you're exactly right. You sort of you want someone to come in from the outside and sort of tell you.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

I trained in law and I was actually clerking for Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor when I decided I wanted to be a writer. And people often say to me like, oh, how did you do that? Like, that must have been really hard and everything. But what made it much easier for me is I knew the book that I wanted to write. I had an idea for a book.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

I trained in law and I was actually clerking for Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor when I decided I wanted to be a writer. And people often say to me like, oh, how did you do that? Like, that must have been really hard and everything. But what made it much easier for me is I knew the book that I wanted to write. I had an idea for a book.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

I trained in law and I was actually clerking for Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor when I decided I wanted to be a writer. And people often say to me like, oh, how did you do that? Like, that must have been really hard and everything. But what made it much easier for me is I knew the book that I wanted to write. I had an idea for a book.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

And I was doing all this research sort of even before I thought, oh, this could make a book. Then it occurred to me, hey, this could make a book. And, hey, I could be the person to write that book. And so it was so much easier for me to leave because I knew exactly where I wanted to go. It wasn't even that I wanted to write.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

And I was doing all this research sort of even before I thought, oh, this could make a book. Then it occurred to me, hey, this could make a book. And, hey, I could be the person to write that book. And so it was so much easier for me to leave because I knew exactly where I wanted to go. It wasn't even that I wanted to write.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

And I was doing all this research sort of even before I thought, oh, this could make a book. Then it occurred to me, hey, this could make a book. And, hey, I could be the person to write that book. And so it was so much easier for me to leave because I knew exactly where I wanted to go. It wasn't even that I wanted to write.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

It was that I wanted to write this particular book, which, in fact, I was already well underway. And that made it so much easier for me that I realized, like โ€“ as I talked to other people and observed the world, that actually that was very unusual. And then I was extremely fortunate.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

It was that I wanted to write this particular book, which, in fact, I was already well underway. And that made it so much easier for me that I realized, like โ€“ as I talked to other people and observed the world, that actually that was very unusual. And then I was extremely fortunate.

Something You Should Know
The Secrets to Being a Successful Adult & Building Your Own Mental Fitness

It was that I wanted to write this particular book, which, in fact, I was already well underway. And that made it so much easier for me that I realized, like โ€“ as I talked to other people and observed the world, that actually that was very unusual. And then I was extremely fortunate.