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Gwyneth Paltrow

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356 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

You are. I'm her. Yeah. And I know what I want and my customers deserve that.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

You are. I'm her. Yeah. And I know what I want and my customers deserve that.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

Are you really?

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

Are you really?

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

Is it still ongoing in some way? I think... that will be ongoing until the end of my life. Like, I think we all have a core wound. And I think we hopefully know what it is and we work on it. And it's a lifelong pursuit to make friends with that wound and heal from that wound and not make decisions from that wound.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

Is it still ongoing in some way? I think... that will be ongoing until the end of my life. Like, I think we all have a core wound. And I think we hopefully know what it is and we work on it. And it's a lifelong pursuit to make friends with that wound and heal from that wound and not make decisions from that wound.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

The other interesting thing is when you cross 40 and then definitely when you cross 50, there's this deepening that happens in your relationship with yourself. And this, at least for me anyway, I've had this sort of like love for myself start to cultivate really post 50.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

The other interesting thing is when you cross 40 and then definitely when you cross 50, there's this deepening that happens in your relationship with yourself. And this, at least for me anyway, I've had this sort of like love for myself start to cultivate really post 50.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

So, you know, I'm in the past couple of years and I'm sort of shifting away from this paradigm of like, I need to be something such that this, you know, it's like, no, I just need to be me. And that there's so much power in like, befriending yourself and being in integrity and saying what you think, even if it's unpopular or even if you're going to disappoint somebody.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

So, you know, I'm in the past couple of years and I'm sort of shifting away from this paradigm of like, I need to be something such that this, you know, it's like, no, I just need to be me. And that there's so much power in like, befriending yourself and being in integrity and saying what you think, even if it's unpopular or even if you're going to disappoint somebody.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

And it's this like incredible blossoming that I feel happening. And so I hope that continues to happen more than like, you know, because sometimes I still have my own personal scoreboard against myself, not against anybody else. And I can be quite punishing, you know, self-punishing. Like I can be very, very hard on myself.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

And it's this like incredible blossoming that I feel happening. And so I hope that continues to happen more than like, you know, because sometimes I still have my own personal scoreboard against myself, not against anybody else. And I can be quite punishing, you know, self-punishing. Like I can be very, very hard on myself.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

And so my hope is that as I continue to sort of soften into this next iteration of who I am and who I was meant to be, that it will be more of the healthy ambition. It's like, I still want the world. I still want to see things and learn. And I want to taste food. And I want to risk stuff. And I want to do things I've never done before.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

And so my hope is that as I continue to sort of soften into this next iteration of who I am and who I was meant to be, that it will be more of the healthy ambition. It's like, I still want the world. I still want to see things and learn. And I want to taste food. And I want to risk stuff. And I want to do things I've never done before.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

But I don't want to do it because if I don't, it will prove to everyone that I'm a bad person.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

But I don't want to do it because if I don't, it will prove to everyone that I'm a bad person.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

Does that make sense?

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

Does that make sense?

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

It's pretty great. I have to tell you.

Aspire with Emma Grede
Aspire with Gwyneth Paltrow: Why Being Early Is Better Than Being Liked

It's pretty great. I have to tell you.