Haley

Good morning.

My name is Haley.

I am 28 and I'm wondering at what point do you consider cutting off a friendship due to your best friend's partner being world's biggest piece of shit?

Engaged.

Have been engaged for probably two years together for four years.

Oh, I think it's just like your tales all this time.

Most toxic, manipulative sort of relationship has kind of taken every aspect of her.

And like, she's just a completely different person than she was when they first met.

Very controlling.

Lots of infidelity, which has been caught also on her end.

So it's not like she has no proof.

And she kind of takes care of everything while compromising her emotional and physical health, her relationships with her friends and family, her career.

She does everything.

And he is just textbook piece of shit.

A lot, but I will say even before that was a piece, the way he would just disrespect boundaries, speak to her, talk about her body, talk about his expectations of her, things like that.

yeah one example like um she went through his apple watch that's how she saw some of the text messages and he had changed the name of the person to like four three five six nine you know like the text that you would get from like dick sporting goods or like that like and she happened to click on it and look so you know he was creative um that is that's very creative that's very creative

No.

And it's one of those where she is so far gone and so far lost that it's like you just want to shake her.

And I'm a very honest friend, so I'm not the friend that's going to tell you, like, it's okay, whatever you want to do.

I've kind of laid it out there for her and tried to be that voice.