Haley Cavinder

You know, it's amazing.

And you should be proud of that.

And like, the thing is, is like, you'll look at other, like I even see sometimes, and like, this is the healing side.

I'm like, God, I look so good there.

You know, like that's the, like, I don't look at the part where it's like, she was so sad.

Yeah.

Like that's, that's the girl that's,

controlled by food that's the girl that wants to be your skinniest and like that's not like you have one life yeah i mean this is like one thing we always talk about it's like we have one life like no one's gonna care about how small your waist looked or like what you did or like no one's gonna care about that

when you're older and you have grandkids and every like, we're not talking about that.

Like talk about like it's memories and enjoying like food plays a big part of that.

And like, I am a foodie now.

It's like, you know, I'd love a chips and salsa and margarita and I'm not mad about it.

I'll look at photos and like, that's still the process of like, how do I get back to like looking like, you know, but like, I don't want to get back there.

Like that, that back there needed help.

Like that Haley needed help.

And like that version of you needed help.

And like,

just because comments or whoever, like, they don't know you.

And, like, remind yourself, like, you're not, your body isn't the most important thing about you.

Like, remind yourself of that.