Hank Azaria

And Stutz, Phil Stutz, there's a lot of my one-man show.

I'm previewing my one-man show.

I hope I'm not giving the whole fucking thing away.

Come see it anyway, even if you watch this.

Stutz calls that moment of recognition for a celebrity, he calls it the double fuck you.

The first fuck you is somebody wants something from you.

The second fuck you is it's not even really you they want it from, it's some idea of you that they have, right?

And I realized, put upon, that was how I felt in my childhood.

I felt that my mom and dad did not really know who I was at all.

And yet they really had a lot of expectations and wanted stuff from me.

And I felt quite put upon by all of it.

And I realized that, someone come up to me and going,

Where do I know you from?

Is not my mom and dad neglecting me as a child.

They just genuinely want to know where they know me from.

And that still didn't do it.

I even had that in mind with some recovery, and I still was like, I'm still really uptight.

And finally, I just started smiling at people.

I just... In response?

I just smiled.