Harris Sockel
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Yeah, I think it just sort of neatly folds in with all of the headlines I've been seeing that basically just scream like there's something going on with men. Like men are having a problem. You know, fewer men are enrolling in college. Gen Z men are dating less. And perhaps most concerningly, men made up nearly 80% of the suicide rate in 2022.
Yeah, I think it just sort of neatly folds in with all of the headlines I've been seeing that basically just scream like there's something going on with men. Like men are having a problem. You know, fewer men are enrolling in college. Gen Z men are dating less. And perhaps most concerningly, men made up nearly 80% of the suicide rate in 2022.
Yeah, I think it just sort of neatly folds in with all of the headlines I've been seeing that basically just scream like there's something going on with men. Like men are having a problem. You know, fewer men are enrolling in college. Gen Z men are dating less. And perhaps most concerningly, men made up nearly 80% of the suicide rate in 2022.
So there's a lot of really big problems happening here. And I think all of this stuff is like very woven together under just like the big umbrella of like men are going through it. There's something happening here. Yeah.
So there's a lot of really big problems happening here. And I think all of this stuff is like very woven together under just like the big umbrella of like men are going through it. There's something happening here. Yeah.
So there's a lot of really big problems happening here. And I think all of this stuff is like very woven together under just like the big umbrella of like men are going through it. There's something happening here. Yeah.
Yeah, yeah. Like Harris said, it's an easy solution. And speaking of some of these people like Andrew Tate, their messages of like, well, you need to have women around you only to dominate them. And like those sort of messages I think are very appealing for men who feel like their place in the world is being threatened.
Yeah, yeah. Like Harris said, it's an easy solution. And speaking of some of these people like Andrew Tate, their messages of like, well, you need to have women around you only to dominate them. And like those sort of messages I think are very appealing for men who feel like their place in the world is being threatened.
Yeah, yeah. Like Harris said, it's an easy solution. And speaking of some of these people like Andrew Tate, their messages of like, well, you need to have women around you only to dominate them. And like those sort of messages I think are very appealing for men who feel like their place in the world is being threatened.
And so it's very easy to say like, oh yeah, like maybe they just need a girlfriend or a friend and like, they'll be better. And I think that maps neatly onto the way that we socialize boys and men too, to sort of value that one romantic relationship. And like, that is the thing that is going to make your life better.
And so it's very easy to say like, oh yeah, like maybe they just need a girlfriend or a friend and like, they'll be better. And I think that maps neatly onto the way that we socialize boys and men too, to sort of value that one romantic relationship. And like, that is the thing that is going to make your life better.
And so it's very easy to say like, oh yeah, like maybe they just need a girlfriend or a friend and like, they'll be better. And I think that maps neatly onto the way that we socialize boys and men too, to sort of value that one romantic relationship. And like, that is the thing that is going to make your life better.
Yeah, like because of that social messaging of like, yes, you need to find your spouse and your partner. I think it could be really, really isolating for men who don't have that.
Yeah, like because of that social messaging of like, yes, you need to find your spouse and your partner. I think it could be really, really isolating for men who don't have that.
Yeah, like because of that social messaging of like, yes, you need to find your spouse and your partner. I think it could be really, really isolating for men who don't have that.
go to a group of men which seems harder to maintain and have yeah well you got to build the group and then maintain the group and then they got to be there when you need them that's a lot and men are also again socialized to value that romantic relationship above all else whereas women it's much more acceptable as girls are growing up you value your friends
go to a group of men which seems harder to maintain and have yeah well you got to build the group and then maintain the group and then they got to be there when you need them that's a lot and men are also again socialized to value that romantic relationship above all else whereas women it's much more acceptable as girls are growing up you value your friends
go to a group of men which seems harder to maintain and have yeah well you got to build the group and then maintain the group and then they got to be there when you need them that's a lot and men are also again socialized to value that romantic relationship above all else whereas women it's much more acceptable as girls are growing up you value your friends
It's maybe seen as like a little feminine for boys to have a lot of friends or to seek their friends for this like emotional support and validation. Like, no, that's what you're supposed to use your romantic partner for. And then that brings up like a lot of vulnerability if you do need that support.
It's maybe seen as like a little feminine for boys to have a lot of friends or to seek their friends for this like emotional support and validation. Like, no, that's what you're supposed to use your romantic partner for. And then that brings up like a lot of vulnerability if you do need that support.