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And that will ultimately likely drive more of it.
And she puts her hand in my mouth to like try and grab my teeth.
It's like the cutest thing ever.
And importantly, what do you do when your child is having a tantrum in public?
Right.
Or in the home because I assume the way you'd handle it in public in theory should be the same way you'd handle it at home.
So I feel like there's more to unpack there in terms of actually how it's addressed.
And so you see it happening, the goal becomes, okay, let's neutralize this situation by removing them from the place of chaos.
So you remove them,
whether you take them to another room in the house, whether you take them outside to the car, and then what's the best way to actually calm them that you've seen?
And that makes a lot of sense.
And I guess on the other side, what are the things that you shouldn't be doing, a la buying them the candy bar, trying to put, you know, what's the saying?
Duct tape on a...
Yeah.
What are the things you shouldn't do that may provide a short-term fixture but then come with medium to longer-term consequences?
And ultimately, I think what that ties down to thematically is never reward the tantrum.
validate the behavior you don't want to see okay and don't meet it with anger i assume yeah so remember you're the grown-up composure feels like it is the common consistency of parenting
Totally.
I guess clarifying, we're kind of moving to a new section right now.
Yeah, but moving away from that.