Harvey Guillén

Like, that was just, like, tradition.

Like, it was just, like, if you're a Latino family, you pitch in.

Like, if you're the oldest, you took care of the younger kids, which my older brother kind of bailed.

Like, he didn't want that, so he was like, bye.

And your turn.

I think he turned 16 and, like, moved out.

And I was like, where are you going?

And I was like, not here.

I was just like, okay.

uh and then i became like the oldest in the family so i guess i i i see like that uh expectation of like you're the oldest right and i was like not really but i kind of took responsibilities of being the oldest and which i don't regret because i love my siblings and um in a way it was nice for me to like um see that like uh have that parental um instinct in me as a young age because i was like do i want kids and as an adult now i do not

And well, fair enough.

You did it once.

I was like, my only regret in life is I had no children yet.

I raised three, you know, but like, uh, I love, I love the idea that like, uh, you know, now as an adult, I have a different dynamic with my siblings.

Cause as a kid, I had this like parental, like you have to do your homework, you have to eat your breakfast and you have to do these things.

And that's no fun as a kid because you want to be the fun brother.

Um, same time you're like, we have to have structure in the house.

And then now,

As an adult, we have all the fun in the world because that had been taken off.

And I'm like, I'm not your, you know, parental figure.