Hayley

He doesn't talk about it.

He gets along with the friends.

So you've got to basically look at it and say, is what he does to me and how he talks to me, does it bring me close or does it make me confused and insecure?

Well, no, tell me, tell me.

Yeah, that's right.

So no mixed messages.

That's the bottom line.

That's when you know somebody is into you.

Too much advice.

Yeah.

I tell you what, right over there.

Really?

She's onto something, yeah.

What if you're both reading the same book?

Now, if you're both into personal development, I think it's a great thing.

But if one is and the other isn't, that's when you're going to start to get into trouble.

Because often with personal development, we see it on our show.

They're very, very enthusiastic about it and they want to talk about it and they want to deep dive and read new books and go to presentations and workshops.

So if you've got someone like that, you really want the other partner to be into it as well.

If they're not, then it's going to probably create problems because you've not got the same values.