Hayley

Yeah, they might say to you, listen, you just need to change your script then.

Is that really what you want to be doing right now?

Let's talk about your future self, shall we?

Yeah.

Well, I think...

You have to be, if you're going to be in a relationship that's healthy, you've got to be able to say, this is what I want.

And you shouldn't be frightened of that.

Correct.

I would say you need to look at whether this person's right for you because they should be embracing what you're asking.

Oh, that's gorgeous.

That's beautiful.

all right, this is what you do.

Here we go.

Pins, pins, pins.

No, you've just got to get your best friend over and you just sit down with a glass of wine and say, tell me, what have I done wrong in the past relationship?

And particularly, how have I got to be different?

And who have I got to go after, which is going to give me a much better relationship?

Get all that feedback and say, right, I'm going to learn now and I'm going to do completely different.

And then that best friend keeps you accountable.

Wow, but you've got to want to hear it.