Hazel Sills

But I do think that this moment is different to me because when I hear these songs, I don't hear you're dead to me because you cheated on me.

You're not cool because you're broke.

Like,

I hear women who are writing very specifically about inequality in their relationships.

So there's another song that came out this year by the R&B artist Summer Walker called No.

And I think this is a very, very highly underrated song, no matter what you feel about her album, Finally Over It.

I think this song is really good.

But in the song, she's basically like...

I'm not going to slave over, you know, the stove to make dinner for you.

And I'm not going to deprioritize myself in this relationship.

Like, you need to get used to hearing the word no, like, that is not a song where she's like, we're breaking up.

That is a song where she's like, things need boundaries.

Yeah, things need to change.

And so I think that this moment is different, because I think

you know, we're in this moment right now where women are more aware than ever of those inequities in their relationships.

Like you guys did an episode earlier this year about, you know, women not getting married.

Why aren't they getting married?

And it's because, you know, women are more educated these days.

Like sometimes they're more financially well off than their male partners in the dating pool.

And so I think that,