Heather Lohmeyer

So this story, this, you're going to just be like, oh my gosh.

So this story, this, you're going to just be like, oh my gosh.

I went to my doctor's office for a checkup after I had the stillbirth just to make sure that everything healed the way it was supposed to heal. So I'm waiting in the waiting room and they call my name to come back. And I go back there and the nurse sits me down and she starts giving me all these gifts for having your first child. She gives me a diaper bag. She gives me formula.

I went to my doctor's office for a checkup after I had the stillbirth just to make sure that everything healed the way it was supposed to heal. So I'm waiting in the waiting room and they call my name to come back. And I go back there and the nurse sits me down and she starts giving me all these gifts for having your first child. She gives me a diaper bag. She gives me formula.

I went to my doctor's office for a checkup after I had the stillbirth just to make sure that everything healed the way it was supposed to heal. So I'm waiting in the waiting room and they call my name to come back. And I go back there and the nurse sits me down and she starts giving me all these gifts for having your first child. She gives me a diaper bag. She gives me formula.

She tells me congratulations. She says, we're going to check the baby's heartbeat. And I just looked at her and I lost it. I completely lost it. And I said, I am not pregnant. And she just looked at me and she just left me in the room to try to figure out what happened. There were two Heathers in the waiting room.

She tells me congratulations. She says, we're going to check the baby's heartbeat. And I just looked at her and I lost it. I completely lost it. And I said, I am not pregnant. And she just looked at me and she just left me in the room to try to figure out what happened. There were two Heathers in the waiting room.

She tells me congratulations. She says, we're going to check the baby's heartbeat. And I just looked at her and I lost it. I completely lost it. And I said, I am not pregnant. And she just looked at me and she just left me in the room to try to figure out what happened. There were two Heathers in the waiting room.

And I got up first. And so the other Heather that was in the waiting room, so they got us mixed up. And so my OBGYN had to come in the room and I was left in that room by myself for a good 20 minutes while they were trying to figure out what the heck happened. So my OBGYN had to come in the room and try to calm me down.

And I got up first. And so the other Heather that was in the waiting room, so they got us mixed up. And so my OBGYN had to come in the room and I was left in that room by myself for a good 20 minutes while they were trying to figure out what the heck happened. So my OBGYN had to come in the room and try to calm me down.

And I got up first. And so the other Heather that was in the waiting room, so they got us mixed up. And so my OBGYN had to come in the room and I was left in that room by myself for a good 20 minutes while they were trying to figure out what the heck happened. So my OBGYN had to come in the room and try to calm me down.

Things like that will happen. I had a dentist appointment where they were cleaning my teeth and I couldn't talk and they kept going on and on and asking me, you know, how many kids do you have this and that? And tears just welled up in my eyes. Um, There are things like that that happen, unfortunately. When I first lost McKinsley, I went through something that I've never gone through before.

Things like that will happen. I had a dentist appointment where they were cleaning my teeth and I couldn't talk and they kept going on and on and asking me, you know, how many kids do you have this and that? And tears just welled up in my eyes. Um, There are things like that that happen, unfortunately. When I first lost McKinsley, I went through something that I've never gone through before.

Things like that will happen. I had a dentist appointment where they were cleaning my teeth and I couldn't talk and they kept going on and on and asking me, you know, how many kids do you have this and that? And tears just welled up in my eyes. Um, There are things like that that happen, unfortunately. When I first lost McKinsley, I went through something that I've never gone through before.

And I started having traumatic hallucinations and visions of different ways that she died.

And I started having traumatic hallucinations and visions of different ways that she died.

And I started having traumatic hallucinations and visions of different ways that she died.

I think it's a pretty unique experience in all of the support groups that I've been in. If I've brought it up, no one that I know has experienced that. So that is hard. You know, you feel like you're a little crazy. But I think my brain was trying to make sense of what happened. I think a kink in the umbilical cord was not good enough for me. I was trying to make sense out of it.

I think it's a pretty unique experience in all of the support groups that I've been in. If I've brought it up, no one that I know has experienced that. So that is hard. You know, you feel like you're a little crazy. But I think my brain was trying to make sense of what happened. I think a kink in the umbilical cord was not good enough for me. I was trying to make sense out of it.

I think it's a pretty unique experience in all of the support groups that I've been in. If I've brought it up, no one that I know has experienced that. So that is hard. You know, you feel like you're a little crazy. But I think my brain was trying to make sense of what happened. I think a kink in the umbilical cord was not good enough for me. I was trying to make sense out of it.