Heather Monahan

About a month or maybe a little over a month ago, I had James Sexton on who's a famous New York divorce attorney. And he called this out that there would be more divorces than we've ever seen in the history of our country once quarantine ends. And it's just everyone's routine was upset. Everyone's, there was uncertainty everywhere. There's financial uncertainty.

About a month or maybe a little over a month ago, I had James Sexton on who's a famous New York divorce attorney. And he called this out that there would be more divorces than we've ever seen in the history of our country once quarantine ends. And it's just everyone's routine was upset. Everyone's, there was uncertainty everywhere. There's financial uncertainty.

There's unrest with children and responsibility. I mean, there's so much going on for everyone. So I just hope everyone cuts themselves a break. And so, you know, today my son sat in his room all day long and I felt terrible about it, but I have to cut myself a break too. I know I have a job to do as well. And, you know, it's easy to,

There's unrest with children and responsibility. I mean, there's so much going on for everyone. So I just hope everyone cuts themselves a break. And so, you know, today my son sat in his room all day long and I felt terrible about it, but I have to cut myself a break too. I know I have a job to do as well. And, you know, it's easy to,

There's unrest with children and responsibility. I mean, there's so much going on for everyone. So I just hope everyone cuts themselves a break. And so, you know, today my son sat in his room all day long and I felt terrible about it, but I have to cut myself a break too. I know I have a job to do as well. And, you know, it's easy to,

in these moments to get down on things and we've just got to be kind to ourselves. Okay. So I feel he doesn't listen to me and I feel we're headed for divorce. At times I find myself having thoughts like, would I divorce him if I knew I could get full custody? I'm curious how you knew it was time to get a divorce and, or if you have any advice. So here's the thing.

in these moments to get down on things and we've just got to be kind to ourselves. Okay. So I feel he doesn't listen to me and I feel we're headed for divorce. At times I find myself having thoughts like, would I divorce him if I knew I could get full custody? I'm curious how you knew it was time to get a divorce and, or if you have any advice. So here's the thing.

in these moments to get down on things and we've just got to be kind to ourselves. Okay. So I feel he doesn't listen to me and I feel we're headed for divorce. At times I find myself having thoughts like, would I divorce him if I knew I could get full custody? I'm curious how you knew it was time to get a divorce and, or if you have any advice. So here's the thing.

Oh my gosh, I was crystal clear when it was time to get a divorce. I remember thinking I could kill that man. I was so angry at him. It was, I thought I could throw a chair at him. I literally thought I might throw something at him. That's how angry, a level of anger I didn't even know existed inside me. That's how mad I was when I finally, that was my final straw. I'll never forget.

Oh my gosh, I was crystal clear when it was time to get a divorce. I remember thinking I could kill that man. I was so angry at him. It was, I thought I could throw a chair at him. I literally thought I might throw something at him. That's how angry, a level of anger I didn't even know existed inside me. That's how mad I was when I finally, that was my final straw. I'll never forget.

Oh my gosh, I was crystal clear when it was time to get a divorce. I remember thinking I could kill that man. I was so angry at him. It was, I thought I could throw a chair at him. I literally thought I might throw something at him. That's how angry, a level of anger I didn't even know existed inside me. That's how mad I was when I finally, that was my final straw. I'll never forget.

Oh my gosh, I was livid. So you hit a breaking point. I think I mean, listen, everybody's different. Right. But for me, it was clear. I just the one question I asked myself was, would you rather be with him unhappily married or be willing to be single with a small child? Which one? And I really thought it through, you know, because some people leave to be with someone else.

Oh my gosh, I was livid. So you hit a breaking point. I think I mean, listen, everybody's different. Right. But for me, it was clear. I just the one question I asked myself was, would you rather be with him unhappily married or be willing to be single with a small child? Which one? And I really thought it through, you know, because some people leave to be with someone else.

Oh my gosh, I was livid. So you hit a breaking point. I think I mean, listen, everybody's different. Right. But for me, it was clear. I just the one question I asked myself was, would you rather be with him unhappily married or be willing to be single with a small child? Which one? And I really thought it through, you know, because some people leave to be with someone else.

That's, in my opinion, not the right answer. That's a recipe for disaster. But if you can do it and just be on your own, would you be happier? And when I played it out in my mind, I was, yeah, I would. I wouldn't be let down all the time. I wouldn't be arguing all the time. I'd have energy back.

That's, in my opinion, not the right answer. That's a recipe for disaster. But if you can do it and just be on your own, would you be happier? And when I played it out in my mind, I was, yeah, I would. I wouldn't be let down all the time. I wouldn't be arguing all the time. I'd have energy back.

That's, in my opinion, not the right answer. That's a recipe for disaster. But if you can do it and just be on your own, would you be happier? And when I played it out in my mind, I was, yeah, I would. I wouldn't be let down all the time. I wouldn't be arguing all the time. I'd have energy back.

I wouldn't have this negative pull on me that I wasn't happy with something and I was just letting it linger. So I kind of liken that back to firing your villains to create confidence. And I'm not saying that he was a villain. I'm saying... In that situation, for me, it was like this pulling negative gnaw on me.

I wouldn't have this negative pull on me that I wasn't happy with something and I was just letting it linger. So I kind of liken that back to firing your villains to create confidence. And I'm not saying that he was a villain. I'm saying... In that situation, for me, it was like this pulling negative gnaw on me.

I wouldn't have this negative pull on me that I wasn't happy with something and I was just letting it linger. So I kind of liken that back to firing your villains to create confidence. And I'm not saying that he was a villain. I'm saying... In that situation, for me, it was like this pulling negative gnaw on me.