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Heather Monahan

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

And when you get rid of that, you set yourself up for further success because you put positive energy back into your life. You eliminate negative energy. You eliminate fighting all these negative emotions and feelings that really begin to consume you. So for me, it was crystal clear. And I'd ask yourself that question. Listen, we might have other people in our ear.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

And when you get rid of that, you set yourself up for further success because you put positive energy back into your life. You eliminate negative energy. You eliminate fighting all these negative emotions and feelings that really begin to consume you. So for me, it was crystal clear. And I'd ask yourself that question. Listen, we might have other people in our ear.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

And when you get rid of that, you set yourself up for further success because you put positive energy back into your life. You eliminate negative energy. You eliminate fighting all these negative emotions and feelings that really begin to consume you. So for me, it was crystal clear. And I'd ask yourself that question. Listen, we might have other people in our ear.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

We might have, your mother might be saying, don't get a divorce, don't get a divorce. You really got to tune out other people and listen to yourself. Listen to your instinct. Listen to your intuition. Journal. That's another great way to start to hear your inner voice. You have the answer inside you. You already know what the answer is. And frankly, if you're reaching out to me,

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

We might have, your mother might be saying, don't get a divorce, don't get a divorce. You really got to tune out other people and listen to yourself. Listen to your instinct. Listen to your intuition. Journal. That's another great way to start to hear your inner voice. You have the answer inside you. You already know what the answer is. And frankly, if you're reaching out to me,

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

We might have, your mother might be saying, don't get a divorce, don't get a divorce. You really got to tune out other people and listen to yourself. Listen to your instinct. Listen to your intuition. Journal. That's another great way to start to hear your inner voice. You have the answer inside you. You already know what the answer is. And frankly, if you're reaching out to me,

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

I'm pretty clear what the answer is. It's funny, people reach out to me when they want the aggressive kick in the pants. I know that. It happens all the time. I get people messaging me, should I leave my job if A, B, C, and D? Well, let me tell you something. If you are reaching out to me, you probably are looking for that push, so why don't you go ahead and do it, right?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

I'm pretty clear what the answer is. It's funny, people reach out to me when they want the aggressive kick in the pants. I know that. It happens all the time. I get people messaging me, should I leave my job if A, B, C, and D? Well, let me tell you something. If you are reaching out to me, you probably are looking for that push, so why don't you go ahead and do it, right?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

I'm pretty clear what the answer is. It's funny, people reach out to me when they want the aggressive kick in the pants. I know that. It happens all the time. I get people messaging me, should I leave my job if A, B, C, and D? Well, let me tell you something. If you are reaching out to me, you probably are looking for that push, so why don't you go ahead and do it, right?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

So that's the indicator to me. The fact that she reached out to me probably says that she should do it, but she needs to answer that question for herself. I cannot tell her what to do, and no one else can. she will know the right thing to do. She will listen to herself and answer this question for herself. I remember when I was younger, a therapist would say that to me and I'd get so mad.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

So that's the indicator to me. The fact that she reached out to me probably says that she should do it, but she needs to answer that question for herself. I cannot tell her what to do, and no one else can. she will know the right thing to do. She will listen to herself and answer this question for herself. I remember when I was younger, a therapist would say that to me and I'd get so mad.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

So that's the indicator to me. The fact that she reached out to me probably says that she should do it, but she needs to answer that question for herself. I cannot tell her what to do, and no one else can. she will know the right thing to do. She will listen to herself and answer this question for herself. I remember when I was younger, a therapist would say that to me and I'd get so mad.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

I'd be like, no, you just tell me, tell me what to do. It's so much easier. But you have to take responsibility when it's your own decisions, right? That's why it is harder. But the more you do that, the more you step into owning your voice, the more you step into listening to your own voice and acting on your intuition, the happier your life will become.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

I'd be like, no, you just tell me, tell me what to do. It's so much easier. But you have to take responsibility when it's your own decisions, right? That's why it is harder. But the more you do that, the more you step into owning your voice, the more you step into listening to your own voice and acting on your intuition, the happier your life will become.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

I'd be like, no, you just tell me, tell me what to do. It's so much easier. But you have to take responsibility when it's your own decisions, right? That's why it is harder. But the more you do that, the more you step into owning your voice, the more you step into listening to your own voice and acting on your intuition, the happier your life will become.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

It's the things we don't want to look at that we don't want to see that we don't want to deal with that we want to ignore that really start to weigh us down. So shed those things, just like we shed the virus and move on. Okay, the other thing I really wanted to get into is one of my mentees had an interesting challenge that I want to share with everyone.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

It's the things we don't want to look at that we don't want to see that we don't want to deal with that we want to ignore that really start to weigh us down. So shed those things, just like we shed the virus and move on. Okay, the other thing I really wanted to get into is one of my mentees had an interesting challenge that I want to share with everyone.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

It's the things we don't want to look at that we don't want to see that we don't want to deal with that we want to ignore that really start to weigh us down. So shed those things, just like we shed the virus and move on. Okay, the other thing I really wanted to get into is one of my mentees had an interesting challenge that I want to share with everyone.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

Back when I was in corporate America, I was in beyond so many BS meetings that were ridiculous and oftentimes you'd be dealing with peers and they'd be responsible for work and they're not hitting their deadlines and it affects you and you can't get your job done when everybody else isn't and the leader at the table isn't leading, right?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: The Power To Decide and Build a Life You Love with Ally Love

Back when I was in corporate America, I was in beyond so many BS meetings that were ridiculous and oftentimes you'd be dealing with peers and they'd be responsible for work and they're not hitting their deadlines and it affects you and you can't get your job done when everybody else isn't and the leader at the table isn't leading, right?