Hilary Duff

It's amazing and speaks volumes of your relationship that she could be so many versions of herself in a marriage.

Do you know what I mean like take on you said lots of different versions of herself it's very hard to like grow I think a lot of the growth that I did outside of motherhood happened before I was in a relationship or in between being in a relationship which is like kind of just being alone with yourself.

I didn't want to like pump the ego too much.

That was what I was getting at.

I don't love to talk about this too much because, you know, I felt like in that time of my life, I was so ready to get married.

I was in something that I really adored.

I was ready to have a baby.

I was ready to have something of my own, you know, that I could just like focus on and it be mine.

And like my life felt out of my hands a little bit at that moment.

And I just wanted to like shrink it.

I've been pretty open about, you know, being a divorced person and what that's like and being a single mom and being, you know, kind of like choosing to like end a family is a huge, horrible choice to make.

But I also co-parent that with that person and we do a great job mostly.

Sometimes there's bumps and frustrations, but again, ebbs and flows, right?

But like we adore this person.

Yeah.

And I think I did.

I think a lot of it has been intuition.

And I think that falls under the category of the or something part of it where I'm like, actually, I deserve some credit here.

I feel incredibly lucky.

I don't know why me.