Hilary Duff

But I do know that I've also worked really hard.

And I know that I've had to...

go through a lot the title is pretty loaded and can mean a whole and does mean a whole bunch of different things to me like what i just said but also it's a coy way of like responding to a question i'm constantly asked which is like how are you so normal how did you get through this and i'm like luck or something yeah got it but i think the the or something is the real weighted portion

Yeah.

Like, honestly, when I zoom out and like, it would be hard for you to answer this way, but I'm like, probably because you're smart.

You know what I mean?

Probably because you're smart.

Probably because I think that you have a gift and you can connect with people.

I feel like I have a similar gift like that.

Like some for some reason, I resonate with people in a certain way.

And but like you have to take credit for what you build and you also can feel lucky.

And you also can feel immense gratitude and, you know, how did I get here feelings.

But like, you're also smart and you're good at what you do.

That's very sweet.

I think it's talking about being the person who's smooth silver and makes everything right and extends themselves and continues to show up and try to make things easy for everyone.

And you're talking about being in a relationship that is going to keep playing a game.

And

You know, towards the end of the song, you finally realize, like, I'm going to put an end to this.

The message behind it is a feeling that a lot of people can relate to of just... It's exhausting to keep up always being the one to make things right or to carry the burden or to make the call or to...

Stay the bigger person and keeping the peace because you're a kid of divorce is obviously very relatable.