Hillary

you need to pause stop see the opportunity that you're being given right now to shift your energy about this and in that moment you get to expand so doubt is there like the doubt was coming from the nervous system the doubt is coming from the subconscious beautiful it's new

Is it enough to just recognize that or do you need to action it?

If you want to go a step further forward, when you shift your energy around something, that's powerful.

So the energy of a co-creator or a conscious creator is the energy, all the scientists say it, gratitude.

Gratitude and love.

But the thing is, is that people didn't give you a reason how to get there.

It never worked for me when I heard people, especially in the 90s, they're like, just be grateful for everything and love everything.

You know, just be in the high vibe.

But I didn't know how to get to the high vibe because I'm like, no, but things are going wrong.

How can I be high five when things are going wrong?

How can I be high five when I'm picking myself apart right now?

How can I be high vibe when I'm so doubtful and fearful?

And so when I could see the meaning, and I used to almost think it was something to the fault of me.

I used to always find meaning in everything.

I was like, does this mean blah, blah, blah.

And, you know, people would say, not everything has to have a meaning, Hilary.

Yeah.

But now I feel like I use it to my advantage of saying, no, the meaning is it's because it's for my growth and for my expansion.

I get to transmit and transform through this because it's not when it's all feeling easy because that's when your comfort zone.

Why I think this is so important is because when we're in business or when you're creating an authentic part or when you're in a relationship that's super healing and different to maybe what you grew up with, it's going to involve uncertainty.