Hillary

So what do you say for the people who are really successful, like let's use business as an example, who are really successful in business but who are not like that at all and who are miserable and not good human beings and how do you explain that?

Is that luck?

No, I think, so this is such a good question, I love this.

Okay, so there's two ways we can talk about this.

So you're going to get successful from pushing and hustling and going hard.

At what cost though?

You can go for it.

And tearing people down along the way.

You can do it in any way, but at the end of the day, how does that feel and how much energy did that turn?

If you have a perspective that everyone is out to get me, that life is hard, that's going to be how you view the world and that's going to be how you view yourself.

A lot of these people do have a lot of self-hatred, do have a lot of like, I need to do more, create more because then I'll be enough.

I love how the Vedic speak about we don't come here with even playing fields.

We don't know what someone's karmic journey is, or we don't know, the Kabbalah calls it your tycoon.

We don't know what is going on in someone's psyche.

So what I can say is, that's what I was saying with the two-prong approach.

Yes, you can go anywhere with force, hard work, go for it.

You know, we saw it with our family.

It's like if you just dedicate 12 hours a day and go for it, absolutely.

But what you have to realize is the person that does that, they back themselves.

So people that have success are willing to risk or they have a stabilized nervous system.