Holly Egerton

What disclosure did they need to provide?

Yeah.

Oh, my God, I cannot deal.

I would have just been, like, on actual eggshells, not wanting to leave the house, not wanting to... That's so bad for your mental health.

reality so at this point how much did you spend on legal fees like where did it land because that would have been so stressful spending that much money on court fees number one but then yeah how like at what did you think okay maybe I should just give up what I mean the whole like sunken cost fallacy would be really hard to if you've already spent

A lot of money.

Finally got it sold.

Obviously quite shit at dates, I'll be honest.

Yeah, honestly.

She's like, it was 85.

and move on with your life and let go of this concept that somebody will come save you or say somebody's hurt you but what were you offered in terms of like what was the actual decision that you had to accept that you weren't stoked with it wasn't it definitely wasn't 50 50 there was just numbers kind of thrown around but it should have been 50 50 and it wasn't is essentially what happened no yeah definitely so they were looking at the amount that the house sold for and they said you can have this and you can have this yeah pretty much

Did you end up getting some money out of it?

Did you at least get capital gains?

It wasn't as though you were in the red even after spending $100,000 on legal fees?

Yes.

So was it a similar amount basically that they offered you at that point?

play a part in that will deter my level of success and what I do with my life so many things I want to touch on but the first thing is maybe the last point that you just made do you mean that you will never get financially involved with someone again that you don't want to build a life with somebody where you your success is intertwined is that kind of what you mean

It's such a hard balance though, you know, the idea of wanting your own and having your own financial independence, but then also having shared goals and working towards things with somebody.

I definitely don't think I've figured out what that middle ground is, but is what you're saying, if you go about it the right way and you have...

your own financial independence, as in you have your own money, you have your own goals, but you also are open to the idea of... Yeah, doing something with them.