Hugh van Kylenburg

She's generally happy.

So, yeah.

And one other thing I say to people, you can't make someone else happy.

It's a personal decision.

So you can't change people.

You can do all you can.

to give them the right environment.

But you can't, in the end of the day, beat yourself up if they're not happy.

They have to make the decision themselves.

And she had made that decision to be happy.

And she said actually that when she was a teenager, she actually had the, she made the decision to be happy for her friend's success, which I did not make that decision.

When I was a teenager, not at all.

How did she do that?

I don't know, but she said she really did, and I can see that's true, that for whatever reason she must have found some wisdom.

Because if we're happy with other people's success, there's success all around us.

Of course.

It never stops.

Yes, I know what you mean.

But you are and I am and I've made this decision to be miserable for a long time, but we are making that decision.

We don't have to make that decision.