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You'll see the picture and it'll align with the picture in your mind. But the feeling is not there. Or it's still not enough.

You'll see the picture and it'll align with the picture in your mind. But the feeling is not there. Or it's still not enough.

Yeah. Yeah, totally. And it's something you shared about, you know, that thing. It's kind of that self-parenting thing of like getting a relationship with yourself as a child. And a friend of mine once described it quite beautifully, I have to say, of like...

Yeah. Yeah, totally. And it's something you shared about, you know, that thing. It's kind of that self-parenting thing of like getting a relationship with yourself as a child. And a friend of mine once described it quite beautifully, I have to say, of like...

getting to this point in that process of then looking out from some moment of their life and just reminding, pausing to remind themselves to invite their child to watch it with them. And to stand in space, whether through the window of their home or at some event that they were at, and to imagine in their mind's eye that their child was there and to say, hey, look, you know, look where we are.

getting to this point in that process of then looking out from some moment of their life and just reminding, pausing to remind themselves to invite their child to watch it with them. And to stand in space, whether through the window of their home or at some event that they were at, and to imagine in their mind's eye that their child was there and to say, hey, look, you know, look where we are.

You did this, you know. And I'm quite moved by that, just to bring your child into that and go like, because there's some, sometimes there's this sort of switch that happens where we think, no, I took myself away from these circumstances and I did all of this on my own. But to turn around to your kid and say, hey, You know, I want you to see this. Wow.

You did this, you know. And I'm quite moved by that, just to bring your child into that and go like, because there's some, sometimes there's this sort of switch that happens where we think, no, I took myself away from these circumstances and I did all of this on my own. But to turn around to your kid and say, hey, You know, I want you to see this. Wow.

How how great you did, you know, and how you you did this, you know, we did this together. Isn't this cool? And just to to let your kids sort of smile at that.

How how great you did, you know, and how you you did this, you know, we did this together. Isn't this cool? And just to to let your kids sort of smile at that.

And yeah, I think it's that one. I think that's a that is a life changing relationship thing, you know, I think with yourself, if you can do that. And, but again, yeah, I mean, I had no language for this until I was after. A few years ago. Yeah, until a couple of years ago. So I'm still, why my reluctance also to speak too much on it is because I'm so early in it, you know.

And yeah, I think it's that one. I think that's a that is a life changing relationship thing, you know, I think with yourself, if you can do that. And, but again, yeah, I mean, I had no language for this until I was after. A few years ago. Yeah, until a couple of years ago. So I'm still, why my reluctance also to speak too much on it is because I'm so early in it, you know.

Yeah, I think so. I'm realizing that it's also imperative for the work I want to make. And it's also, it's like to not do it. I think when you start on that, by the time you're ready to sort of do your own little work on yourself, you're ready to realize that not doing this isn't an option. Or it's an option, but you've done that. You know what I mean?

Yeah, I think so. I'm realizing that it's also imperative for the work I want to make. And it's also, it's like to not do it. I think when you start on that, by the time you're ready to sort of do your own little work on yourself, you're ready to realize that not doing this isn't an option. Or it's an option, but you've done that. You know what I mean?

Or for what's ahead of you and what it is that you want for your life and you feel the experience of living that you would like to get to. It's like you realize, okay, I just kind of have to do this.

Or for what's ahead of you and what it is that you want for your life and you feel the experience of living that you would like to get to. It's like you realize, okay, I just kind of have to do this.

I think this is maybe not just necessary for the work as well, too, for being creative. I just want to walk in step with myself in a way that feels aligned with myself and aligned with the work. I guess, to feel at peace in whatever the work is that needs to be made.

I think this is maybe not just necessary for the work as well, too, for being creative. I just want to walk in step with myself in a way that feels aligned with myself and aligned with the work. I guess, to feel at peace in whatever the work is that needs to be made.

It happens. I won't give examples. It happens. Or you catch yourself, you catch yourself in a thought of like, um, yeah, there's always this sort of one more stone to turn. You know, it's like, I always approached things with like, leave no stone unturned. It's like, you know, just do everything. Yeah. And I'll,

It happens. I won't give examples. It happens. Or you catch yourself, you catch yourself in a thought of like, um, yeah, there's always this sort of one more stone to turn. You know, it's like, I always approached things with like, leave no stone unturned. It's like, you know, just do everything. Yeah. And I'll,