Jade Warshaw

Or what if my spouse thinks I'm neglecting them?

And I'm like, let's distill it down.

Tell me exactly.

And then we can address it.

If you're afraid that

you're a newlywed and your spouse is gonna think you don't wanna spend time with them, then we can solve for that, can't we?

We can have that conversation.

We can say, here's what my fear is because fear, the antidote to fear is light.

It just needs to be put out in the open.

We can see it for what it is and then we can deal with it.

Oh boy, I could probably tell you a lot of different truths about money because there's so many things that people don't want to hear.

But I think the number one thing is it may not have been your fault, but it's your job to fix it.

Like that, for me, that is the big one.

Because like you said, I take calls from people, you know, around the world all day, every day on The Ramsey Show.

I mean, it's like 18 million folks a week that are listening to that.

And everybody's calling in with different types of problems, but the feeling of it is the same, which is,

should I be the one that has to deal with this, right?

It's, well, my spouse, they're not the one doing it and I'm trying to save money, but they're outspending.

Or, you know, my grandma took out a credit card in my name or my parents are the ones that told me to sign for the student loans, right?

There's all of this reason that we kind of want to place the blame somewhere else.