Jaime Hoerricks, PhD

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642 appearances 5 recordings 2 series first heard Dec 2024 last heard 20 Dec

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And the consequence of that is the burden of proof immediately lands on the person who creates the distance.

If you step back, you're the one who has to explain why you couldn't make it work.

You're the one under scrutiny, not the situation you left.

Evidence of what?

I find that word tidy so pointed.

It implies the story isn't for emotional accuracy.

It's for the outside observer who just needs the drama wrapped up.

And that satisfaction comes at the expense of erasing the relationship's actual history.

Oh, absolutely.

At that point, the narrative becomes almost impossible to challenge.

The societal assumption is so strong that a parent has to absorb almost any relational cost to stay connected.

So the choice to step back is in itself the failure.

It doesn't matter what the history was.

So if the parent leaves, the world doesn't feel the need to investigate why.

OK, but that brings up a huge question.

We've said the tidy reading is simple.

It's satisfying.

But is it accurate?

And this is where it gets really interesting.

The source material argues that this tidy reading is also deeply inaccurate.

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