Jake Shane

I've mentioned marriage a few times lately and found that he hasn't even considered ring shopping.

Do you think that's a me problem, the fact that I would like to be married first, or do you think that's reasonable before kids?"

Personally, for me, I think it's reasonable before kids.

However, there are a lot of people in this world that do not believe in the institution of marriage.

What I will say is I don't think it's, like...

with bad intent that he's saying he doesn't want to get married.

I don't think he doesn't, I don't think he's not considering marriage because he doesn't want to marry you.

If he's talking about wanting to have kids with you.

Well, that's the way I was confused.

Do you know what I mean?

Like, I think maybe this is a larger conversation of like, Hey, do you like not want to do marriage as a whole?

And like that, having that conversation.

And if,

you cannot get on the same page as that, then maybe you do have to go your separate ways if marriage is so important to you.

But if he's more important to you as a person, then maybe you can work through it.

Love that energy.

Basically, my roommate keeps... Oh.

Oh, my God.

Basically, my roommate keeps getting handjobs from his boyfriend every time we do a movie night, hangout, et cetera, and pretend we don't notice.

Basically, my roommate keeps getting handjobs from his boyfriend every time we do a movie night, hang out, et cetera, and pretend we don't notice.