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And so it took a little bit of time to get comfortable with that. But once I got there, it was a lot easier to get there again because I just had a feeling for what that looked like.

And so it took a little bit of time to get comfortable with that. But once I got there, it was a lot easier to get there again because I just had a feeling for what that looked like.

And so it took a little bit of time to get comfortable with that. But once I got there, it was a lot easier to get there again because I just had a feeling for what that looked like.

Yeah, I remember that. That was a big kind of shift for me because I found myself going into dates feeling like If I wasn't performing at the top level for the entire date, it was going to be a failure and it was going to be my fault. I remember you telling me, 80% of the conversation can be kind of boring.

Yeah, I remember that. That was a big kind of shift for me because I found myself going into dates feeling like If I wasn't performing at the top level for the entire date, it was going to be a failure and it was going to be my fault. I remember you telling me, 80% of the conversation can be kind of boring.

Yeah, I remember that. That was a big kind of shift for me because I found myself going into dates feeling like If I wasn't performing at the top level for the entire date, it was going to be a failure and it was going to be my fault. I remember you telling me, 80% of the conversation can be kind of boring.

Yeah, yeah. Well, I think – yeah, I mean what it came down to was I think one of the big things that was holding me back was my just fear of being boring and uninteresting. I thought that I had to be super interesting to a girl for her to be attracted to me when it was really – I just needed to show up as myself and be a interesting, like just normal person.

Yeah, yeah. Well, I think – yeah, I mean what it came down to was I think one of the big things that was holding me back was my just fear of being boring and uninteresting. I thought that I had to be super interesting to a girl for her to be attracted to me when it was really – I just needed to show up as myself and be a interesting, like just normal person.

Yeah, yeah. Well, I think – yeah, I mean what it came down to was I think one of the big things that was holding me back was my just fear of being boring and uninteresting. I thought that I had to be super interesting to a girl for her to be attracted to me when it was really – I just needed to show up as myself and be a interesting, like just normal person.

Yeah. Yeah. Um, and, but then it, it did give me, it gave me freedom to when I did think of something funny, I could throw it in there and it would, it would be a great moment. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Um, and, but then it, it did give me, it gave me freedom to when I did think of something funny, I could throw it in there and it would, it would be a great moment. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Um, and, but then it, it did give me, it gave me freedom to when I did think of something funny, I could throw it in there and it would, it would be a great moment. Yeah. Yeah.

Oh, man. It's kind of a meme for me this year, but been into Creed this year. Okay.

Oh, man. It's kind of a meme for me this year, but been into Creed this year. Okay.

Oh, man. It's kind of a meme for me this year, but been into Creed this year. Okay.

Yeah. Yeah. It was, it was definitely, I remember going on dates beforehand, like before working with you was just very high anxiety through most of the date. Whereas now,

Yeah. Yeah. It was, it was definitely, I remember going on dates beforehand, like before working with you was just very high anxiety through most of the date. Whereas now,

Yeah. Yeah. It was, it was definitely, I remember going on dates beforehand, like before working with you was just very high anxiety through most of the date. Whereas now,

afterward especially it was just a lot more relaxing like i could i could start to say am i having like am i interested in this girl as opposed to constantly thinking about am i performing am i doing a good job it's just am i having am i enjoying it because there were there were some there were some dates where not going well And because we just weren't a good fit.

afterward especially it was just a lot more relaxing like i could i could start to say am i having like am i interested in this girl as opposed to constantly thinking about am i performing am i doing a good job it's just am i having am i enjoying it because there were there were some there were some dates where not going well And because we just weren't a good fit.