Jake

afterward especially it was just a lot more relaxing like i could i could start to say am i having like am i interested in this girl as opposed to constantly thinking about am i performing am i doing a good job it's just am i having am i enjoying it because there were there were some there were some dates where not going well And because we just weren't a good fit.

And previously, I would think I'm no good. I'm a lousy dating person. I'm not attractive. But kind of as the year went on, I just was able to be a little bit more comfortable with – I'm – Maybe this girl isn't for me. And it made the ones where I did connect with them all that much more exciting because it was, oh, wow, there's a connection here. I can feel it.

And previously, I would think I'm no good. I'm a lousy dating person. I'm not attractive. But kind of as the year went on, I just was able to be a little bit more comfortable with – I'm – Maybe this girl isn't for me. And it made the ones where I did connect with them all that much more exciting because it was, oh, wow, there's a connection here. I can feel it.

And previously, I would think I'm no good. I'm a lousy dating person. I'm not attractive. But kind of as the year went on, I just was able to be a little bit more comfortable with – I'm – Maybe this girl isn't for me. And it made the ones where I did connect with them all that much more exciting because it was, oh, wow, there's a connection here. I can feel it.

Yeah, definitely. It was just constant.

Yeah, definitely. It was just constant.

Yeah, definitely. It was just constant.

Yeah, for sure. And just being able to be more comfortable. There's things that I enjoy talking about. Bringing those up and being comfortable with that and feeling like this is who I am. Let's see if she's into me and my true self.

Yeah, for sure. And just being able to be more comfortable. There's things that I enjoy talking about. Bringing those up and being comfortable with that and feeling like this is who I am. Let's see if she's into me and my true self.

Yeah, for sure. And just being able to be more comfortable. There's things that I enjoy talking about. Bringing those up and being comfortable with that and feeling like this is who I am. Let's see if she's into me and my true self.

I think one that I remember is just sort of spiking the conversation and, you know, maybe talking about something totally different. Um, but just like finding, finding the right way to just throw something in there that, that turns it into man to woman. Like I remember there was this one girl that I went out with and, uh, we were talking about bands and, and.

I think one that I remember is just sort of spiking the conversation and, you know, maybe talking about something totally different. Um, but just like finding, finding the right way to just throw something in there that, that turns it into man to woman. Like I remember there was this one girl that I went out with and, uh, we were talking about bands and, and.

I think one that I remember is just sort of spiking the conversation and, you know, maybe talking about something totally different. Um, but just like finding, finding the right way to just throw something in there that, that turns it into man to woman. Like I remember there was this one girl that I went out with and, uh, we were talking about bands and, and.

That may have come up, but that's confidence.

That may have come up, but that's confidence.

That may have come up, but that's confidence.

Yeah. So listen to this. She, she says she, I was like, so what was your, like, what was your, like, you know, favorite band in, in high school? And she's like, I think it may have been Nickelback. Yeah. Okay. You know, previously I would have just, Oh, that's funny. That's that's yeah. I like Nickelback too.

Yeah. So listen to this. She, she says she, I was like, so what was your, like, what was your, like, you know, favorite band in, in high school? And she's like, I think it may have been Nickelback. Yeah. Okay. You know, previously I would have just, Oh, that's funny. That's that's yeah. I like Nickelback too.

Yeah. So listen to this. She, she says she, I was like, so what was your, like, what was your, like, you know, favorite band in, in high school? And she's like, I think it may have been Nickelback. Yeah. Okay. You know, previously I would have just, Oh, that's funny. That's that's yeah. I like Nickelback too.

But I was like, I really kind of leaned into it and I was like, wow, you just got so much more attractive to me that she liked Nickelback. And just like a little, little comments like that, that, um, cause it genuinely was, it was, it was, it was funny to hear her say that, but also, um, I was like, okay, this is a girl that is not afraid to say what she's interested in.