James Cordova

And that helps both of us.

She's with me and she's able to feel like she's got some influence, some control over what's going on on the road.

And I get to go out and go as fast or as long as I want because it's easier for her to keep up.

So it's actually become...

a really sweet source of connection between the two of us.

But, you know, it took us a while to find our way to that.

No, they definitely don't.

There are definitely problems that, for all of us in all of our relationships, there are problems that will stubbornly refuse to be solved.

They are areas of friction in our relationship that arise out of naturally occurring differences between us that aren't ever going to go away.

Those are going to be sources of conflict.

We think of them as naturally occurring flaws in the fabric of our relationship.

So, for example, one of the most fundamental personality traits is the difference between introverts and extroverts.

And for whatever reason, because the creator of the universe has a sense of humor, introverts and extroverts find each other very attractive and often end up in relationships together.

Yeah.

And introverts can be attracted to extroverts because they pull them out and have great adventures with them.

And extroverts can be attracted to introverts because of that sort of steadiness.

And there's a kind of connection that comes with that sense of steady calm.

And...

what we're going to do on a Friday night is always going to be an issue because it's arising out of a fundamental difference between the two of us.

If I'm an extrovert, I've had an exhausting week.