James Sexton
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I think a lot of us don't feel worthy of love.
And we're terrified that we're not worthy of love.
We're terrified that if someone really knew us, they wouldn't really love us.
The only way that they love us is that we've sold them a bill of goods.
We've given them bright ties and bullshit to the point where they believe.
But the truth is, we desperately want to be loved.
We desperately want to be worthy of love.
And I think we are.
I think we really are.
I think we're all flawed.
We're all heroes in the right moment.
We're all villains in the wrong moment.
But we're all just trying to do this, man.
And I really believe that most of what we get wrong in relationships stems from the mistaken belief that we're not worthy of love and all the things we do to protect ourselves from having to confront that fear.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I've seen people reconcile.
You know, what you're asking when you ask that question is, can you take the same ingredients and make a different dish?
And we all know the answer is yes.