James Sexton

Like, I don't want to say it out loud.

It's a little, you know, I feel a little weird about it.

You go elsewhere.

You go like, hey, you know, like some of the, you know, like with your wife, you know, there's like something, like it's kind of hard to do certain things with your wife and then look her in the eye, you know?

So, okay, like maybe that's the approach you take.

Or maybe you take, I think, the very healthy approach of like, hey, who we are in bed and who we are in life doesn't have to be the same thing.

Like, I don't know a lot of women who,

that if you sent them a text that said, you know, you know I respect you, right?

You know, because in about 20 minutes when I get home, it's gonna seem like I don't.

just for a little while.

Like, I think most women would be like, okay, I'm in, that'll be interesting.

Like, let's see what that turns into, you know?

So like, I think if your wife said to you, like, listen, I love you and you're smart and you're great and we're building a life together and all that, but like, I kind of am going to objectify you right now.

Like, I just, I think you're really hot and I want to have sex with you.

Like, dude, I would be thrilled.

I'd be like, okay, this sounds great.

Objectify me.

I'm sick of being in love for my brain.

Like, so, okay, that's all really good stuff.

So again,