James Sexton
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And what kind of story it was is really in the aggregate.
Like, I have two sons.
They're 26 and 28.
And if you look at my worst moment of parenting and you judge me by that moment, I'm a bad father.
If you judge me by my greatest moment as a father, you're giving me way too much credit.
What it really is, is what is it in the aggregate?
What is it in the long term, in the totality?
So I think it's the same thing with love.
I think that the idea that if a relationship ended, it wasn't the right relationship, you picked wrong, it was a waste of time.
I just refuse to believe that.
I mean, if you have children with someone
That's insane to say because you wouldn't have those exact children if at the exact moment.
I mean, we now know about like biology that like three hours later, you'd have had a different kid.
You know, like that's crazy.
If you drank, you know, a different amount of water and were less hydrated or more hydrated, you'd have had a different kid.
Like that's insane.
You know, so the magic of this pairing in this moment created this unique person.
So how could you ever regret it?
Like I have people who say to me, they're like, oh, I wish I'd never met him.
I'm like, you have three kids.