James Sexton

they did this other thing where they're like, no, I want to figure this out.

Like, I don't think that this person is defined by one mistake, no matter how serious that mistake was.

And I'm, I have an investment in this person.

We have children.

We love each other.

Like we could, we made promises to each other.

We failed.

We made a mistake.

You broke that promise.

Does that mean this person's valueless?

Does that mean this person could never be tried?

I, I,

have seen a lot of people come into my office and they've been cheated on or they've been caught cheating.

And it just happened.

And they're like, okay, it's over.

It's over, I'm getting divorced, we're done, that's it.

And as a lawyer, I could weaponize that very quickly.

I'd be like, all right, we gotta move quickly and we have to do this, we have to...

lot of times like unless there's something imminent happening i'll really try to get people to be like okay cool next week we can do this in this or you know listen we're going to shore up our defenses but we're not going to start firing bullets just yet let's just see and quite often a week or two later the person's like okay we're going to go talk to someone we're going to go to counseling we're going to figure something out now this is not a popular thing to say like you post this as a clip

You're going to get a lot of comments and they're not going to be praising.