James Sexton

That was the goal, right?

So when did it turn into this like, well, you did this, I don't have to do this.

Well, I did this, I don't have to do this.

Like when did it turn into that?

Just angry roommates.

Yeah, like resentful roommates.

you know, resentful roommates.

And by the way, I'm not saying that resentment sometimes isn't born of something totally fair and legitimate.

Of course, like it hurts when someone doesn't see you.

It hurts when someone's inconsiderate.

But the solution to it is not to escalate in this arms race.

The solution to it is to go, okay, that's not the game we're playing.

Like the game we signed on for is not who can fail each other more.

The idea was how can we show up for each other?

And I think that that's a noble pursuit.

I think it's something that we can try.

So I would say that's a huge first crack in the wall is when you start counting those things and you start negatively reacting to each other in this downward spiral.

The other thing too is I think when you just stop

You just stop.

I mean, look at what, it's actually kind of easy to look at.