James Sexton

Okay, you can change that cycle by I'm gonna do this even though I don't have to, this good thing, this kind thing, this warm thing.

And maybe that goes, oh, well, they did that for me.

Like maybe I'll do this thing for them.

And then it starts this positive spiral, right?

So I think when you start to see the first step of that, that negative downward spiral is people starting to like treat each other poorly as a reaction to perceived transgressions of the other, right?

So, well, I'm not gonna clean up that dish because she didn't clean up my dish.

Cool.

That's great.

What's the end game on that?

Like neither of us has to be nice to each other.

Cool.

Okay.

You're right.

Like you don't have to be nice to each other.

I thought the idea here was we wanted to be together and happy.

I thought that was the idea.

Like when we started, when we had that big party and you had the dress and I had the tux, remember everybody's in the room?

The whole idea there was this person makes me happy.

I make them happy too.

We're gonna like really try to make each other happy.