James

That makes me happy. What's up? You know it. Hey, my question today is, how do I address hesitations about marriage due to my girlfriend's plans and some financial concerns?

Absolutely. And I want to preface this by saying we have a great relationship and I absolutely want to marry her. But I've also noticed that I've been internally wrestling with two hurdles that I can tell are keeping me from saying, all right, let's do this thing. So the hurdle one is she wants to move states away from my family.

Absolutely. And I want to preface this by saying we have a great relationship and I absolutely want to marry her. But I've also noticed that I've been internally wrestling with two hurdles that I can tell are keeping me from saying, all right, let's do this thing. So the hurdle one is she wants to move states away from my family.

Absolutely. And I want to preface this by saying we have a great relationship and I absolutely want to marry her. But I've also noticed that I've been internally wrestling with two hurdles that I can tell are keeping me from saying, all right, let's do this thing. So the hurdle one is she wants to move states away from my family.

And I also would rather live in a different state, but I haven't fully accepted the reality of raising my kids away from my parents. And I just want my parents to be involved in my childhood or my kids' childhood. And then hurdle two is, is her mother is going to need assistance. And my girlfriend wants to be a stay-at-home mom.

And I also would rather live in a different state, but I haven't fully accepted the reality of raising my kids away from my parents. And I just want my parents to be involved in my childhood or my kids' childhood. And then hurdle two is, is her mother is going to need assistance. And my girlfriend wants to be a stay-at-home mom.

And I also would rather live in a different state, but I haven't fully accepted the reality of raising my kids away from my parents. And I just want my parents to be involved in my childhood or my kids' childhood. And then hurdle two is, is her mother is going to need assistance. And my girlfriend wants to be a stay-at-home mom.

And I'm concerned with raising a family on a single income with the potential of also supporting my future mother-in-law. And I currently make a good salary, but I just feel like it's not enough. And like you said on ownership, I've I'm just wondering if I'm holding on to not stepping up and owning these things and just saying, babe, I love you.

And I'm concerned with raising a family on a single income with the potential of also supporting my future mother-in-law. And I currently make a good salary, but I just feel like it's not enough. And like you said on ownership, I've I'm just wondering if I'm holding on to not stepping up and owning these things and just saying, babe, I love you.

And I'm concerned with raising a family on a single income with the potential of also supporting my future mother-in-law. And I currently make a good salary, but I just feel like it's not enough. And like you said on ownership, I've I'm just wondering if I'm holding on to not stepping up and owning these things and just saying, babe, I love you.

I'm going to go through life with you and we're going to figure everything out along the way.

I'm going to go through life with you and we're going to figure everything out along the way.

I'm going to go through life with you and we're going to figure everything out along the way.

She's around 60.

She's around 60.

She's around 60.

Yes. she, she does have, um, she's had a lot of hardships and still is having, um, health issues and currently has someone help her out throughout the week. But, um, I guess I'm concerned, like I'm a little stressed about being a single income home.

Yes. she, she does have, um, she's had a lot of hardships and still is having, um, health issues and currently has someone help her out throughout the week. But, um, I guess I'm concerned, like I'm a little stressed about being a single income home.

Yes. she, she does have, um, she's had a lot of hardships and still is having, um, health issues and currently has someone help her out throughout the week. But, um, I guess I'm concerned, like I'm a little stressed about being a single income home.

$110,000.