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Jan Jachimowicz

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370 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Are the tasks that I'm working on not controllable enough for me?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

I can't really accomplish the outcomes that I want.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Do I need to upskill so that I can actually do the work that I want to be doing?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Or am I feeling cynical?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Do I no longer believe in what it is that I'm trying to accomplish here?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

And that's a very different kind of break and a very different way of addressing it.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

I'm so glad Nancy brought that up.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

It was the main criticism that my wife had after our episode as well.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

And I didn't talk about the socioeconomic component.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

The truth is that many professions that allow someone to pursue their passion do not pay well.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

If we think about the canonical example, the artists, the chefs, the musicians, a lot of these professions don't pay well.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

There's some evidence also that seems to suggest that people can be exploited for their passion.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Meaning that if you ask somebody, oh, there's this additional task that needs to be done at the office, who do you give that task to that you're more likely to give that to the passionate person because you think, oh, they'll do it for free.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

And there's also research showing that when people care very deeply about something, that they are less likely to want to bring up money in a salary negotiation because they worry that if they bring up money, other people might doubt how deeply they care about that.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

So all these things seem to suggest it can be really challenging to bring money into the mix.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

The broader evidence, however, is inconclusive.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

When you look at broad, large-scale correlational studies, the relationship between people who pursue work that they're deeply passionate about and their salary is sometimes flat, it's sometimes positive, sometimes negative.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

There's one paper by Yuna Cho and Winnie Jung who suggests that one of the reasons why the relationship might actually be

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

positive is that other people respond so positively to people who are passionate for what they're doing.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

I mentioned earlier research showing that people want to exploit others who are passionate.