Jane

Right.

Which is wild because I don't feel like that in my head, but I think that it's how it comes across.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And there have been moments where I'm like, I, we talk a little bit about our expectations about what postpartum and newborn life will be like.

And

Like, I think we're really on the same page.

And then it'll come out that it's like, oh, well, I actually thought about that thing really differently than you did.

And it's nothing like majorly catastrophic by any means.

But then I realize, yeah, then I realize, oh, I haven't communicated that as clearly as I thought I did.

And then it sort of makes me wonder what else I did.

Because I do have, I do have a really hard time just being like, these are my needs and I need you to fulfill them in this way.

Yes.

It's like terrifying for me.

It does.

Yeah.

I think I've noticed that like in other times in life, like he doesn't have any issues being like, well, this is what I think about that.

And this is why I think it's not correct.

And it's not coming from a place of like, you're wrong.

It's just the way that he communicates it.