Jane

But it's still like, oh, I still want to go to this show or whatever.

I'm not drinking, though.

It's like, okay, cool.

But I feel like I'm sacrificing so much.

And you are still...

Not getting it.

And I don't know how, like, it's like, how else can I get you to consider me more?

Like, I want him to wake up and be like, oh, maybe my wife, like, wouldn't appreciate that.

I'm not going to ask her if I can go and put her in that position to say no.

Or I let him go and then I'm at home anxious and upset.

Yeah.

I mean, I'm just like stuck there.

Yeah.

And he's, he's shared those feelings of like, like almost like this, like crisis, like identity crisis of like, I don't want to be just a dad.

I don't want this to be like our whole life.

And I'm like, yeah, me neither.

But look at me.

Like, I'm like, I'm, you know, I mean, what else?

I love being a mom, but we have other hobbies and it's like, but the fact that you're choosing right now, what does he want?

Yeah, like I want to have all these interests.