Jane

I mean, honestly, the fact that you were... It's not just about her.

It's, like, about, you know, just the general, like you said, like, being there for me and even not going...

you know, out.

Um, but it's like, we are still like, Oh, I, it's, I either feel like I'm saying no.

And he's at home resenting me and like, but you know, and then I'm dealing with that.

And so it's like, do I just suck it up and say, if that's going to make me feel more comfortable than letting him go out to like happy hour drinks and, um,

And he did stop drinking the last two months because of a lot of this stuff.

And that has felt supportive.

And I've tried to be like, I really appreciate it.

That's a way that you are showing me and committing that.

But it's still like, oh, I still want to go to this show or whatever.

I'm not drinking, though.

It's like, okay, cool.

But I feel like I'm sacrificing so much.

And you are still...

Not getting it.

And I don't know how, like, it's like, how else can I get you to consider me more?

Like, I want him to wake up and be like, oh, maybe my wife, like, wouldn't appreciate that.

I'm not going to ask her if I can go and put her in that position to say no.

Or I let him go and then I'm at home anxious and upset.