Jason Feifer
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Just pause on the business, pause all business, and just stay home and raise the child. And although she is finding the act of being with her child and raising her child to be very personally rewarding, it has given her an identity crisis because... She does not think of herself as a stay-at-home mom. That is just not how she identifies.
Just pause on the business, pause all business, and just stay home and raise the child. And although she is finding the act of being with her child and raising her child to be very personally rewarding, it has given her an identity crisis because... She does not think of herself as a stay-at-home mom. That is just not how she identifies.
That's not what she would ever say of herself, even though that is very technically what she is right now. And she didn't know how to manage that or how to create a coherence in that. And my mission statement thing prompted this thought. She said her mission now is... I help people become the best versions of themselves because that applies to the consulting work that she was doing.
That's not what she would ever say of herself, even though that is very technically what she is right now. And she didn't know how to manage that or how to create a coherence in that. And my mission statement thing prompted this thought. She said her mission now is... I help people become the best versions of themselves because that applies to the consulting work that she was doing.
That's not what she would ever say of herself, even though that is very technically what she is right now. And she didn't know how to manage that or how to create a coherence in that. And my mission statement thing prompted this thought. She said her mission now is... I help people become the best versions of themselves because that applies to the consulting work that she was doing.
And it also applies to raising the child. And that was a really helpful unlock for her to see that the thing that she's doing now is consistent with the thing that she was doing before and is consistent with whatever it else that she does next. And I really loved that. And so I offer you that as a way of thinking like, This will absolutely change some way in which you understand yourself.
And it also applies to raising the child. And that was a really helpful unlock for her to see that the thing that she's doing now is consistent with the thing that she was doing before and is consistent with whatever it else that she does next. And I really loved that. And so I offer you that as a way of thinking like, This will absolutely change some way in which you understand yourself.
And it also applies to raising the child. And that was a really helpful unlock for her to see that the thing that she's doing now is consistent with the thing that she was doing before and is consistent with whatever it else that she does next. And I really loved that. And so I offer you that as a way of thinking like, This will absolutely change some way in which you understand yourself.
And it has to, right? Because you've oriented yourself so much around work. And now there is... That's not to say that you won't do that in the future, but you will now have another thing to orient yourself around in some way or another. And so to bring those things into coherence in some way, which I'm certainly not perfect at at all, but...
And it has to, right? Because you've oriented yourself so much around work. And now there is... That's not to say that you won't do that in the future, but you will now have another thing to orient yourself around in some way or another. And so to bring those things into coherence in some way, which I'm certainly not perfect at at all, but...
And it has to, right? Because you've oriented yourself so much around work. And now there is... That's not to say that you won't do that in the future, but you will now have another thing to orient yourself around in some way or another. And so to bring those things into coherence in some way, which I'm certainly not perfect at at all, but...
aspire to, I think, is to give yourself a better understanding of your identity instead of shaking your identity.
aspire to, I think, is to give yourself a better understanding of your identity instead of shaking your identity.
aspire to, I think, is to give yourself a better understanding of your identity instead of shaking your identity.
You know, the answer is that it just happens. you just kind of grow into it. And then also some days you also just don't shower. It's also true. You just don't, but you know, also it doesn't matter because whatever, I mean, look, I, I really liked that. That is a, that's a really cool thing. I did.
You know, the answer is that it just happens. you just kind of grow into it. And then also some days you also just don't shower. It's also true. You just don't, but you know, also it doesn't matter because whatever, I mean, look, I, I really liked that. That is a, that's a really cool thing. I did.
You know, the answer is that it just happens. you just kind of grow into it. And then also some days you also just don't shower. It's also true. You just don't, but you know, also it doesn't matter because whatever, I mean, look, I, I really liked that. That is a, that's a really cool thing. I did.
I didn't know that you had gone through that first exercise and that you're now almost doing it in reverse. But I think that the real answer is that like anything in life, any big important thing in life. There's no way to actually plan for it. The best you can do is march into it with open eyes and open ears. And then you just kind of figure it out.
I didn't know that you had gone through that first exercise and that you're now almost doing it in reverse. But I think that the real answer is that like anything in life, any big important thing in life. There's no way to actually plan for it. The best you can do is march into it with open eyes and open ears. And then you just kind of figure it out.
I didn't know that you had gone through that first exercise and that you're now almost doing it in reverse. But I think that the real answer is that like anything in life, any big important thing in life. There's no way to actually plan for it. The best you can do is march into it with open eyes and open ears. And then you just kind of figure it out.