Jason Tartick
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311 appearances
2 recordings
2 series
first heard Mar 2025
last heard Mar 2025
Jason Tartick’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And what I'll tell you about prenups is that the biggest thing you want to think about is if a member has a significant set of, let's say, assets or children from a previous marriage or large real estate or ownership in a company or you expect to sell a company, you are going to want to start thinking about prenups.
But also if you're married to someone like that, you too want to think about prenups because you want to make sure that you have an understanding going into marriage that the life you currently live will still be somewhat similar even if it doesn't work out. It's not a one-way street with prenups.
It's for both people to be in a better position so there's not gray area entering your relationship, wondering what if, and then terrible toxicity keeping you in that relationship because you don't have answers. So step into it. History tells us we need to step into it. Also, let's quickly just talk about the idea that there is something called a postnup, right?
So I don't know if you've addressed that on the show, but a postnup is something that maybe you ran out of time to sign a prenup. Maybe you're listening to this and you don't have one. There's all this craziness about planning a wedding and doing all these things. Like it's a tough thing to even think about. But we know that divorce happens.
So if something has happened in your life where more money is coming in, or let's say your parents are well off and you're going to get some of their inheritance, or you just want to get on top of it today, you can create a postnum after you're married. And that's another way to protect both parties, especially.
The person that's at home taking care of the family that is sacrificing their earnings in their job so that if the relationship doesn't work out, they're not starting at entry level 101 like they graduated college. They have some type of value for what they brought to the relationship. And staying at home and taking care of the family is a massive value.
At the end of the day, the reason I even have any form of platform is because I went on a dating show. I opened my life about dating. I introduced my family through ABC. And I talked about like, it's crazy with that show. Get out of here.
I mean, I talked about my grandmother's Alzheimer's and how I'll just never forget the moment that I was with my dad and she couldn't remember my dad's name and the pain in his eyes. But the fact that like, he could still sit there with a smile knowing her best interest was at stake if he held strong. And Like these are deep moments that have like impacted everything about me.
And it's those moments that have led to this platform, which I've been able to pivot in a lot of ways. And I think there's a couple takeaways from that. One, vulnerability is the root of all connection, right? Like the deeper you can go, the more you can connect with people. I've also learned through, you know, that was, of course, on The Bachelorette. Obviously, that relationship didn't work out.
I had another relationship that didn't work out, and now I'm in a new relationship, right? So since bringing that part of my life to the public eye, I've also learned a lot about this space of where things can be really good about doing that, where things could be really bad, some of the negativity, some of the positivity. And it's a learning process.
And like everything, it's a continued learning process. And so what I have learned in, let's just call it the last year, is that the importance of boundaries and privacy, to a certain extent, is so much greater than your ego or trying to get a point across, you know? And I think that goes for people in a public spotlight, private satellite. I think that goes for people in business.
I think that goes for people in relationships at any level is that sometimes we let our ego lead and our ego wants to do a lot of things. And there are other times that it's like, Not everything has to be explained, right? Children explain, adults inform. And so I think with maturity, with time, with learning comes growing. And with all this public stuff, I'm going to make mistakes.
I'm never going to be perfect. My goal is, though, to be better today than I was yesterday. And I think that's all you can do.
You know, I asked this question. I'll never forget. I asked Nick Viall. He's one of the most successful people that have come from the Bachelor franchise. And he, ironically enough, has had so much success. One of the best podcasts truly in the country right now, performance wise. And I asked him, he gets a lot of hate. He gets a lot of hate, but he's very successful.
And he said it really well to me. It was something I'll never forget. And after that, I always ask people in their industry, and there's more lessons I've learned. But what he said was he's a big Green Bay Packers fan. And every day there's a commentator on Monday that will come in after the Packers game, and he will rip them apart. He hates the Packers. He cannot stand them.
And Nick said, I'm a fan of the Packers, and I hate this guy. But every Monday, I'm the first person that listens to his show. And he said, it doesn't matter if people like you or love you. It matters that they want to hear from you. And I started to explore this. And I learned a little bit of Barstool. Barstool has a rule. We don't care what people say in the comments.
They better be just commenting. And then I looked even further into a business that's been around a lot longer than both of those. It's a multi, multi, multi, multi-billion dollar business. wrestling, WWF, WCW, WWE, Hulk Hogan to wherever we are today. And in that sport, what determines your success is how loud the crowd can be. So they have the fan favorites and they have what's called the heels.
And there could be a show in which the heel goes out there and he's getting beer thrown at him. Everyone's flicking them off and they're screaming at him. And when they sit at their production table, if he got the loudest noise that night, He won the night. And so sometimes it's interesting. It doesn't matter if you're the fan favorite or if you're loved or hated or whatever season you're in.
Sometimes it just, in this crazy space and you hear about these businesses, it's that people are tuning in. And I know that's like blunt and that's harsh and it is what it is, but it's also just the reality of this. So what I've told myself when I deal with haters is one, noise is okay. It's not necessarily a bad thing.
And two, the other big thing I've told myself, and this came from my therapist, no one really knows the truth, right? There's three sides to every story, one side, the other side, and the truth. And you can over-explain, over-explain, over-explain, and you still may never get the truth. And we see this in everything. We see it in business leaders. We see this in politics. We see it in everything.
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