Jason Wilson
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But he's telling you to go that way and then tell you he wasn't going to split it yet. Just go that way. Right. That can be challenging at times. And that's why it's important to... Not have your identity wrapped up in things, money, your accomplishments, not even your family. As much as I love mine, I know love on the human plane is conditional. It's based on what we can do.
But he's telling you to go that way and then tell you he wasn't going to split it yet. Just go that way. Right. That can be challenging at times. And that's why it's important to... Not have your identity wrapped up in things, money, your accomplishments, not even your family. As much as I love mine, I know love on the human plane is conditional. It's based on what we can do.
It's just human nature. The closest you'll get to unconditional love is from a good mother on this earth. Yeah. Or dog. Or dog. And, you know, when you realize that, you're like, hey, you know, for me, it was I studied many religions and I chose that path. And I have no regrets. If I lose everything and still have him, I still have everything.
It's just human nature. The closest you'll get to unconditional love is from a good mother on this earth. Yeah. Or dog. Or dog. And, you know, when you realize that, you're like, hey, you know, for me, it was I studied many religions and I chose that path. And I have no regrets. If I lose everything and still have him, I still have everything.
I would say the gentleman in regards to chivalry. I had to study that because today you say chivalry is dead, right? And it's almost like chivalry is perceived as pandering to women. But when I studied it, it was the code of honor amongst medieval knights. Why did we relinquish that? So for me growing up again, the misleading mantras, I was the same bros before H-O-E-S.
I would say the gentleman in regards to chivalry. I had to study that because today you say chivalry is dead, right? And it's almost like chivalry is perceived as pandering to women. But when I studied it, it was the code of honor amongst medieval knights. Why did we relinquish that? So for me growing up again, the misleading mantras, I was the same bros before H-O-E-S.
So I was programmed never to really trust a woman. Don't be affectionate with a woman in public. You'll be looked at as being weak. To this day, I have to fight to hold my wife's hand in public. Really? Yeah, man. You have to fight to force yourself to do it? It's an internal struggle. My father, I remember I told him I was getting married. He told me, why? Why would you do that?
So I was programmed never to really trust a woman. Don't be affectionate with a woman in public. You'll be looked at as being weak. To this day, I have to fight to hold my wife's hand in public. Really? Yeah, man. You have to fight to force yourself to do it? It's an internal struggle. My father, I remember I told him I was getting married. He told me, why? Why would you do that?
All the men in my life never were comprehensive men.
All the men in my life never were comprehensive men.
And then, you know, outside of being a fighter and provider, the gentleman, what is that? You know, we were smooth, but it was always what we called a game to get something. Yeah. So we had to have game. So I didn't like playing games, you know. And so that's why the commitment level wasn't there. And so, again, just really living freely from that romantic side that's in me.
And then, you know, outside of being a fighter and provider, the gentleman, what is that? You know, we were smooth, but it was always what we called a game to get something. Yeah. So we had to have game. So I didn't like playing games, you know. And so that's why the commitment level wasn't there. And so, again, just really living freely from that romantic side that's in me.
And that's a process I'm going through now, resolving the hurt, you know, experience the relationships. And that's one of the men's biggest struggles with getting married is because when you marry someone, she's going to see she's not going to just see Batman. She's going to see Bruce Wayne now.
And that's a process I'm going through now, resolving the hurt, you know, experience the relationships. And that's one of the men's biggest struggles with getting married is because when you marry someone, she's going to see she's not going to just see Batman. She's going to see Bruce Wayne now.
can you deal with that oh are you okay with her seeing that you're depressed some mornings that yeah you two are anxious at times oh yeah you two get scared at times and so that's the the challenging part for men and for me it's just moving past the lies that i've been uh I guess, programmed to believe by the men in my family that being romantic publicly was a sign of weakness.
can you deal with that oh are you okay with her seeing that you're depressed some mornings that yeah you two are anxious at times oh yeah you two get scared at times and so that's the the challenging part for men and for me it's just moving past the lies that i've been uh I guess, programmed to believe by the men in my family that being romantic publicly was a sign of weakness.
And so that's one of the attributes that I struggle with exuding.
And so that's one of the attributes that I struggle with exuding.
Again, it's the fear of, I used to say vulnerable, being vulnerable. But I believe that's the wrong word because that means you're open to harm or being killed. Like if a gunman was to come in here now, the news report would say he killed the vulnerable citizens. What we're trying to encourage men to do is be emotionally open or transparent about
Again, it's the fear of, I used to say vulnerable, being vulnerable. But I believe that's the wrong word because that means you're open to harm or being killed. Like if a gunman was to come in here now, the news report would say he killed the vulnerable citizens. What we're trying to encourage men to do is be emotionally open or transparent about