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Jason Wilson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
501 total appearances

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The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

That's how he did it for four years? Yeah. But our time compared to his time is zero. But when you're stuck in your identities and what you do like athletes, when you retire, you don't know what you're gonna do with yourself.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

For me, first, the foundation, of course, is the most high in Christ for me. So what does that look like? My identity? Oh, well. What does that mean? My identity is. In him, meaning I embody all who he is. So I manifest his attributes for to me in my book. At the end, I share he was the ultimate comprehensive man. He was the fighter. He was the provider. He was the leader. He was the lover.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

For me, first, the foundation, of course, is the most high in Christ for me. So what does that look like? My identity? Oh, well. What does that mean? My identity is. In him, meaning I embody all who he is. So I manifest his attributes for to me in my book. At the end, I share he was the ultimate comprehensive man. He was the fighter. He was the provider. He was the leader. He was the lover.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

He was the nurturer. He was the gentleman. He was the father, all right, as incarnate, as God, he is one. He was the son. And so those attributes of the competence of man, I exude because of who he is in me. So when I say I am, he is in me and I am, he's the reason why I exist and why I move. I exude his attributes. And that's what I mean by my identity being wrapped up in him.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

He was the nurturer. He was the gentleman. He was the father, all right, as incarnate, as God, he is one. He was the son. And so those attributes of the competence of man, I exude because of who he is in me. So when I say I am, he is in me and I am, he's the reason why I exist and why I move. I exude his attributes. And that's what I mean by my identity being wrapped up in him.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

Second, I would say my family, but even that can be shaken. If I was to commit adultery on my wife, she may leave, I don't know. If I was physically abusive to her, my children's love would change. So all of my hope lies in him. That's the only constant that I have.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

Second, I would say my family, but even that can be shaken. If I was to commit adultery on my wife, she may leave, I don't know. If I was physically abusive to her, my children's love would change. So all of my hope lies in him. That's the only constant that I have.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

I would say... Hmm. Reminds me of Moses. We were talking about him earlier. When the Mosiah called him to go to Pharaoh to free his people, Moses complained about not speaking with the eloquent tongue, making a lot of excuses. And then God told him to have his brother speak for him, which I believe was a big mistake because Moses didn't work through all of his insecurities.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

I would say... Hmm. Reminds me of Moses. We were talking about him earlier. When the Mosiah called him to go to Pharaoh to free his people, Moses complained about not speaking with the eloquent tongue, making a lot of excuses. And then God told him to have his brother speak for him, which I believe was a big mistake because Moses didn't work through all of his insecurities.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

And at the end, those insecurities caused him to hit the rocks and he couldn't enter the promised land. So I share that to say because I know it's a blessing knowing that everything you do is wrapped up in him. At the same time, finding your confidence solely in him can be a challenge at times. A lot of things that he has me doing, I know it's not me.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

And at the end, those insecurities caused him to hit the rocks and he couldn't enter the promised land. So I share that to say because I know it's a blessing knowing that everything you do is wrapped up in him. At the same time, finding your confidence solely in him can be a challenge at times. A lot of things that he has me doing, I know it's not me.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

I know the men that stop me at the airport or when I go speed come up to me here. I mean, real men crying, breaking down. That's not me. I'm just a man. And so to truly just say, hey, I'm going to trust you regardless and just move. Sometimes that can be a challenge when you're walking towards the Red Sea and it hasn't been parted yet.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

I know the men that stop me at the airport or when I go speed come up to me here. I mean, real men crying, breaking down. That's not me. I'm just a man. And so to truly just say, hey, I'm going to trust you regardless and just move. Sometimes that can be a challenge when you're walking towards the Red Sea and it hasn't been parted yet.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

But he's telling you to go that way and then tell you he wasn't going to split it yet. Just go that way. Right. That can be challenging at times. And that's why it's important to... Not have your identity wrapped up in things, money, your accomplishments, not even your family. As much as I love mine, I know love on the human plane is conditional. It's based on what we can do.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

But he's telling you to go that way and then tell you he wasn't going to split it yet. Just go that way. Right. That can be challenging at times. And that's why it's important to... Not have your identity wrapped up in things, money, your accomplishments, not even your family. As much as I love mine, I know love on the human plane is conditional. It's based on what we can do.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

It's just human nature. The closest you'll get to unconditional love is from a good mother on this earth. Yeah. Or dog. Or dog. And, you know, when you realize that, you're like, hey, you know, for me, it was I studied many religions and I chose that path. And I have no regrets. If I lose everything and still have him, I still have everything.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

It's just human nature. The closest you'll get to unconditional love is from a good mother on this earth. Yeah. Or dog. Or dog. And, you know, when you realize that, you're like, hey, you know, for me, it was I studied many religions and I chose that path. And I have no regrets. If I lose everything and still have him, I still have everything.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

I would say the gentleman in regards to chivalry. I had to study that because today you say chivalry is dead, right? And it's almost like chivalry is perceived as pandering to women. But when I studied it, it was the code of honor amongst medieval knights. Why did we relinquish that? So for me growing up again, the misleading mantras, I was the same bros before H-O-E-S.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

I would say the gentleman in regards to chivalry. I had to study that because today you say chivalry is dead, right? And it's almost like chivalry is perceived as pandering to women. But when I studied it, it was the code of honor amongst medieval knights. Why did we relinquish that? So for me growing up again, the misleading mantras, I was the same bros before H-O-E-S.

The School of Greatness
Why Men Suffer In Silence: How To Embrace Vulnerability To Create Healthy Love | Jason Wilson

So I was programmed never to really trust a woman. Don't be affectionate with a woman in public. You'll be looked at as being weak. To this day, I have to fight to hold my wife's hand in public. Really? Yeah, man. You have to fight to force yourself to do it? It's an internal struggle. My father, I remember I told him I was getting married. He told me, why? Why would you do that?