Jason Wilson

And so for me to be transparent and open was actually a gateway to my freedom, man. And my wife would tell you to this day to have a man who can, she can see that is scared, but can move through that fear. Or a man who says, hey, I don't know about this decision, but I'm going to trust God that this is the right way to go.

And so for me to be transparent and open was actually a gateway to my freedom, man. And my wife would tell you to this day to have a man who can, she can see that is scared, but can move through that fear. Or a man who says, hey, I don't know about this decision, but I'm going to trust God that this is the right way to go.

I'm going to trust the data we have that this is the right decision financially. And we're going to move. For her to see that, whoa, OK, he doesn't know it all, but yet he still walks confidently in that decision. He still has a little fear, but he doesn't succumb to it. Now you can be more authentic. And that's really what men want. They're dying to just be treated as humans.

I'm going to trust the data we have that this is the right decision financially. And we're going to move. For her to see that, whoa, OK, he doesn't know it all, but yet he still walks confidently in that decision. He still has a little fear, but he doesn't succumb to it. Now you can be more authentic. And that's really what men want. They're dying to just be treated as humans.

Can I just share my fear without you condemning me as being weak?

Can I just share my fear without you condemning me as being weak?

From the men that I've worked with, the greatest fear is their inadequacy. the imposter syndrome, that I'm really not all she thinks I am. Real, she's going to see this one side. What happened during COVID? The divorce rates went through the roof. Because you couldn't be at work for eight hours. There was no time apart.

From the men that I've worked with, the greatest fear is their inadequacy. the imposter syndrome, that I'm really not all she thinks I am. Real, she's going to see this one side. What happened during COVID? The divorce rates went through the roof. Because you couldn't be at work for eight hours. There was no time apart.

For me, I was sad when COVID was over because I enjoy being with my wife and my son all day, every day. I didn't have to leave them because by that time I had become a comprehensive man. You wanted to express it all. Yeah, yeah. It was nothing to hide. But if you're with the suits, the bra, you know, the bravado, all this other stuff, that's your aura all day. No one ever sees a sign of weakness.

For me, I was sad when COVID was over because I enjoy being with my wife and my son all day, every day. I didn't have to leave them because by that time I had become a comprehensive man. You wanted to express it all. Yeah, yeah. It was nothing to hide. But if you're with the suits, the bra, you know, the bravado, all this other stuff, that's your aura all day. No one ever sees a sign of weakness.

There is no, you're never concerned. You're stoic 24-7. Then you get married and now she can see. Now she, oh, wait, why are you depressed? I thought we're living our best life. I thought nothing bothers you. What happened? Mm-hmm. So no one wants to be a fraud. But how can you be a fraud when you're authentic? There's nothing to hide anymore.

There is no, you're never concerned. You're stoic 24-7. Then you get married and now she can see. Now she, oh, wait, why are you depressed? I thought we're living our best life. I thought nothing bothers you. What happened? Mm-hmm. So no one wants to be a fraud. But how can you be a fraud when you're authentic? There's nothing to hide anymore.

Do you think most men are authentic before they get married? I don't think most of us are authentic at all right now. Because especially in the era of social media, everything is performance. Highlight reels. They don't see the other side of what goes on inside of a man's mind, his heart, his fears.

Do you think most men are authentic before they get married? I don't think most of us are authentic at all right now. Because especially in the era of social media, everything is performance. Highlight reels. They don't see the other side of what goes on inside of a man's mind, his heart, his fears.

We're doing a better job now, especially thankful to men like you who are showing the real side of what men are going through. I don't think we're there yet. I know with more conversations like this, we're getting there. But no, we're not living authentic. I mean, even look at the videos, the movies, Hollywood, even in hip hop, everything is a facade.

We're doing a better job now, especially thankful to men like you who are showing the real side of what men are going through. I don't think we're there yet. I know with more conversations like this, we're getting there. But no, we're not living authentic. I mean, even look at the videos, the movies, Hollywood, even in hip hop, everything is a facade.

Well, you couldn't just say hip hop, you know, you could say mass media and not all of hip hop, you know, but definitely mass media is playing a major role in how people see themselves in the mirror. Definitely, especially social media. Again, I've had couples where wives had to just...

Well, you couldn't just say hip hop, you know, you could say mass media and not all of hip hop, you know, but definitely mass media is playing a major role in how people see themselves in the mirror. Definitely, especially social media. Again, I've had couples where wives had to just...

get off social media because they would be depressed looking at other couples and they have no idea that that couple was struggling you see and so I couldn't identify you know wouldn't say it's totally hip hop but I mean you can say the same for rock pop You know, the drug abuse in those two genres alone.

get off social media because they would be depressed looking at other couples and they have no idea that that couple was struggling you see and so I couldn't identify you know wouldn't say it's totally hip hop but I mean you can say the same for rock pop You know, the drug abuse in those two genres alone.