Jay Jack

And once it shows up going, I don't know, like, is this something that I'm participating in?

Or is this something that is happening to me?

Like, can I control this?

Can I avoid this?

Can I mitigate this?

Like not knowing if you have power and not knowing what comes next are the two scariest things in the world.

And it's, I think people are,

that don't like when you lift up the veil and you're like oh dude it's easier to just put it back down and go okay that's not going to happen to me shark's not going to attack me when i swim car is not going to get in a wreck i don't need to put on my seat belt because i'm not going to get in a car accident like it's probably not going to happen to me like we're not going to get pregnant whatever it is like everybody just goes it's not

I just don't want to think about it because it's easier to not think about it than it is to actually address it and plan.

Good example.

That's my wife, dude.

When I first met her, she was an athlete.

She'd never been in a fight in her life, dude, ever.

Like she was a hippie, you know what I mean?

And she played basketball her whole life.

So she's been an athlete, but had never done any, no martial arts, no fighting, no nothing, you know?

And like she graduated from college.

And so unless you're going to the Olympics, sports is kind of over.

You know what I mean?

She wasn't going to be, she's five foot three.