Jay Jack

I'm so scared.

You know what I mean?

And then they come back and they're like, I love school.

They want to go back to school tomorrow.

Yeah, I can do it.

I'll ride the bus.

But we robbed that from dogs.

But I think that's because, man, I think people have gone the other way.

Yes.

Resistance is not abuse.

non-contingent aversives, insurmountable resistance is abuse.

Yes, of course it's abuse.

Making the being think it can't overcome because I am so big on teaching beings they can overcome.

And I think that is one of the most important feelings you can give a being is I can overcome.

To me, the worst thing you can do to a being is teaching it can't overcome.

Yes.

So an insurmountable resistance,

uh aversive and insurmountable bad thing is the worst possible thing you can do to a dog or a person or a person i mean that's why people are on on ssris and then they're just non-functional beings it's sad to watch them because that's right yeah no i'm just dude you have to you have to teach them they can overcome things so what i tell people like when you're training dogs and people but this is in the dog training world i tell people like look

When you're making a being stronger, when you're making a being brave, when you're making them become somebody, right?

It's like the Goldilocks principle.