Jay Jack
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
What you're looking for is this.
And it sounds weird because what most people think they're looking for is the, I can definitely, like, errorless learning.
I can definitely do it.
I'm not scared.
This is not hard.
That's not what you're looking for.
If a being looks at a task and goes, I 100% can totally do it, you're not improving anything.
They're having fun.
It's great.
It's wonderful.
It feels good.
But they're not getting... No growth.
If a being looks at something and goes, there's 100% for sure I cannot do it, also not good.
perfect like yes you want them to go fuck i don't know not i can't but not for sure i can't you want to go fuck i don't know dude and then when they do they go yes sure yes like when they do they're like fuck did you see me i did it you're like i know dude and then they grow and the theory would be that it takes a little bit more to make them feel like i don't know if i can't
Do you know what I mean?
And then they overcome that and they're like, I did more.
And then it's like, it's hard to find things to challenge that dog.
Oh yeah.
Dude, that sense of accomplishing things is so profound and causes you to seek it out.
You know what I mean?