Jay Shetty

Yeah, exactly.

Yeah, exactly.

I think comfortable is something you feel together and complacent is something one person feels. So if you can both agree, I love the way we're living. We love our life. I love the vacations we go on. I love our friends. I love what we're creating. There's a comfort in that. And that's what we're all looking for. We're looking for someone that we can come home to and cozy up with.

I think comfortable is something you feel together and complacent is something one person feels. So if you can both agree, I love the way we're living. We love our life. I love the vacations we go on. I love our friends. I love what we're creating. There's a comfort in that. And that's what we're all looking for. We're looking for someone that we can come home to and cozy up with.

We're looking for someone who feels like a warm cup of coffee. That's comfortable, right? We want that in a partner. But if one person can't agree to that, then that person feels the other person's being complacent. Now, what happens is people are scared to accept that they're being complacent because it means like they're not showing up enough or doing enough.

We're looking for someone who feels like a warm cup of coffee. That's comfortable, right? We want that in a partner. But if one person can't agree to that, then that person feels the other person's being complacent. Now, what happens is people are scared to accept that they're being complacent because it means like they're not showing up enough or doing enough.

It's a very negative word. But the point is, you've got to listen to your partner. If your partner is genuinely saying, hey, I don't think we're comfortable. I think we're complacent. There's no moments to look forward to anymore. And that's what complacency is. I think comfort is... Comfort is stable excitement, right? It's like we feel a sense of there's still things to look forward to.

It's a very negative word. But the point is, you've got to listen to your partner. If your partner is genuinely saying, hey, I don't think we're comfortable. I think we're complacent. There's no moments to look forward to anymore. And that's what complacency is. I think comfort is... Comfort is stable excitement, right? It's like we feel a sense of there's still things to look forward to.

We come back down. There's this beautiful harmonic movement of a wave. There's like a comfort in looking at the ocean, even though it's constantly moving. It's still moving. It's doing its thing. Complacency is almost just like there's no...

We come back down. There's this beautiful harmonic movement of a wave. There's like a comfort in looking at the ocean, even though it's constantly moving. It's still moving. It's doing its thing. Complacency is almost just like there's no...

rhythm, there's only routine, we're kind of both robots performing the same roles, the same tasks, the same things, there's no spontaneity, there's no change, there's no shift. And I think it really does take one person to have the courage to say it. And my hope is that when the other person hears it again, you as a team come to a conclusion of how to get out of it.

rhythm, there's only routine, we're kind of both robots performing the same roles, the same tasks, the same things, there's no spontaneity, there's no change, there's no shift. And I think it really does take one person to have the courage to say it. And my hope is that when the other person hears it again, you as a team come to a conclusion of how to get out of it.

It's still a together thing to solve, even if it's a one person to raise. This is the biggest thing. If you want this relationship to work, you've got to help your partner help themselves, help your relationship, and you help them. And I think the challenge we have is a lot of us feel like we're the only one doing it. And if you feel you're the only one doing it, there's two things you need to do.

It's still a together thing to solve, even if it's a one person to raise. This is the biggest thing. If you want this relationship to work, you've got to help your partner help themselves, help your relationship, and you help them. And I think the challenge we have is a lot of us feel like we're the only one doing it. And if you feel you're the only one doing it, there's two things you need to do.

The first thing you need to do is something I call a relationship audit, because this has helped me so many times. A lot of us think relationships are who makes the money, who takes care of the house. We look at it through two things. But relationships are physical, who's taking care of the house, the physical surroundings. Financial, who is making the money, taking care of the finances.

The first thing you need to do is something I call a relationship audit, because this has helped me so many times. A lot of us think relationships are who makes the money, who takes care of the house. We look at it through two things. But relationships are physical, who's taking care of the house, the physical surroundings. Financial, who is making the money, taking care of the finances.

It's mental. Who's setting the mindset of this relationship? It's emotional. Who's setting the nurturing of this relationship? And it's spiritual. Who's setting the fate or the spiritual direction of this relationship? Every time I've thought about it this way, I've realized me and Radhi are even leaders. And I think that gives me a sense of strength and confidence.

It's mental. Who's setting the mindset of this relationship? It's emotional. Who's setting the nurturing of this relationship? And it's spiritual. Who's setting the fate or the spiritual direction of this relationship? Every time I've thought about it this way, I've realized me and Radhi are even leaders. And I think that gives me a sense of strength and confidence.

If we only look at it through two things, which is what we do, finance and home, you might feel like you do everything. And it's really important to us for broadening the view. Now, if you look at it as those five metrics, and you're doing four out of the five, that person's complacent. It's just there. It's true. It's really, really, it's hard.

If we only look at it through two things, which is what we do, finance and home, you might feel like you do everything. And it's really important to us for broadening the view. Now, if you look at it as those five metrics, and you're doing four out of the five, that person's complacent. It's just there. It's true. It's really, really, it's hard.