Jay Shetty

Adjusting and abandoning.

Adjusting and abandoning.

Yeah.

Yeah.

The difference between love and lust is that lust is that excitement, exhilaration of connection. Love is how you handle disconnection. If there's only lust, then when there's an argument or a disagreement, you don't know how to get on the same page.

The difference between love and lust is that lust is that excitement, exhilaration of connection. Love is how you handle disconnection. If there's only lust, then when there's an argument or a disagreement, you don't know how to get on the same page.

That's why we call it makeup sex or breakup sex because you resort to an activity that's fueled by passion to solve a problem that can't be healed by it. Right, if you've had a disconnection or if you've had a problem or if there's a challenge and you don't like the way the person behaves with you, then there's no love because that's what you're looking for.

That's why we call it makeup sex or breakup sex because you resort to an activity that's fueled by passion to solve a problem that can't be healed by it. Right, if you've had a disconnection or if you've had a problem or if there's a challenge and you don't like the way the person behaves with you, then there's no love because that's what you're looking for.

You're looking for, can someone bring love to a place where there isn't any or where we're lacking it or where we've run out of it or where we've lost it? That's what love is. Love is something that exists within both of you and when you're disagreeing, you're distant. If there's love, you'll become closer through it. If there isn't love, you push yourselves away through it.

You're looking for, can someone bring love to a place where there isn't any or where we're lacking it or where we've run out of it or where we've lost it? That's what love is. Love is something that exists within both of you and when you're disagreeing, you're distant. If there's love, you'll become closer through it. If there isn't love, you push yourselves away through it.

So when I meet a new couple, I like to ask them, what was the last disagreement you have? And do you like the way your partner and you came to a conclusion or came to a solution? It's how we deal with the tough stuff that makes all the difference.

So when I meet a new couple, I like to ask them, what was the last disagreement you have? And do you like the way your partner and you came to a conclusion or came to a solution? It's how we deal with the tough stuff that makes all the difference.

That's a good thing. That shows why you guys chose fun.

That's a good thing. That shows why you guys chose fun.

Yeah.

Yeah.

It never dawned on me. Well, the studies show, right, that the reason why sex releases chemicals, that makes you forget the argument. Oh. So it's not even like you actually feel better. You just think you feel better. And so you actually never came to a solution. And that's why it's not the healthiest way to solve a problem.

It never dawned on me. Well, the studies show, right, that the reason why sex releases chemicals, that makes you forget the argument. Oh. So it's not even like you actually feel better. You just think you feel better. And so you actually never came to a solution. And that's why it's not the healthiest way to solve a problem.

Because if you're relying on lust to solve the problem, then all you're left with is lust. It's not love.

Because if you're relying on lust to solve the problem, then all you're left with is lust. It's not love.