Jean

You try to cut out the food dye.

And I have learned that when they go to the grandparents, that's not always the case.

You know, they go to grandparents' house.

They only go over there like maybe once a week.

So I can deal with that when they come back home.

You know, one of our children has eczema and it is food related.

And I'm like, I'll just...

give her, you know, oatmeal bath, do all the extra things.

If she has a flare up, you know, I'll, I won't die on that heel of the food.

I'll, you know, the other one is the tablet time and what they're watching on the tablet.

And I've given a list of like mom approved stuff and,

and it's been like, oh, you know, they just click from one video to the other, and I don't want to sit there and, you know, sit beside them while they're on the tablet and monitor what they're doing.

And I'm like, well, that's part of what I'm asking you to do because you can't just walk away if they're just click, click, clicking, or download this app, you know, PBS Kids or whatever, and don't put them on YouTube, you know.

Right.

And I do that too with most of the people.

Okay.

But this is where it comes to.

So like, and the last one is like, I'm going to die.

The last one is the hill I'm dying on.

You know, that is a major boundary for me.