Jean

And whenever I mention the last one, which I'll get to in just a second.

And even with the other ones, oh, you're just being too sensitive.

You're, you know, you're thinking too much.

The third thing is, all right, so because of things that's happened to me in the past, I'm very protective when it comes to my children and who they're around and all of that.

And my parents are not bringing people over that they're not supposed to or anything like that.

So it's not that at all.

It's just a few times that I've been over there and they've had all the grandkids.

So I have two little girls and the rest are boys.

The boys are very comfortable with themselves and they will strip down to their underwear and run around the house like little boys do.

And that bothers me mostly because if we're comfortable with that now because they're little and it's innocent and there's nothing wrong with it, you know, because they're they're cousins and they're just children.

If we're comfortable with it now, when they're little, when they're older, we'll still be comfortable with it.

So I want to draw the line.

Okay.

that you taking that, like, I don't, I don't look at the kids and be like, Oh, you're trouble, you know, but it's in my head and my nervous system is like, okay, I experienced things that I shouldn't, I should not have at that moment.

I know I'm overreacting, but I don't know how to tell my body to be like, okay, you need to calm down.

You know, I don't know how to do that.

And then whenever I bring it up and I try to talk through it with my mother, um,

because I don't talk about this stuff with my dad, but when I talk about it with my mom, it's, well, you know, you're overthinking it.

You're overreacting.

This is, you know, you know, you're just, you're just putting too much emotion and too much thought into this.